She's not the homophobic type, she actually supports the lgbt stuff, until it's for me. I've tried to give her some hints that I'm a lesbian, but she keeps acting blind. She's OBSESSED with telling me I should find a boyfriend soon, even if I told her I'm not interested. Whenever someone asks me about my sexuality (it's kinda obvios I'm lesbian) she doesn't let me answer and answers for me, like she's scared of hearing what I'm sure she already know. What I should do? I LOVE my mom and I don't want her to be upset with me
#How do I come out as a lesbian to my mom?
tropic mason
quartz musk
Maybe tell her that your not really intrested into boys. Im not very good at helping people but this might help
tropic mason
Maybe tell her that your not really intrested into boys. Im not very good at hel...
I told her so many times I'm not into boys, but she acts like it's a "teenager phase" and she says I'll find the right boy someday, as I said, she just keeps acting blind and it's annoying
quartz musk
I told her so many times I'm not into boys, but she acts like it's a "teenager p...
Tell her that you strongly feel it, in your heart, and this isn't a teenager phase.
tropic mason
Tell her that you strongly feel it, in your heart, and this isn't a teenager pha...
Idk if I'm ready to tell her I'm only into girls... If she acts like this, how'll she react when I tell her?
quartz musk
Idk if I'm ready to tell her I'm only into girls... If she acts like this, how'l...
Maybe tell her over text. It helps. If your not ready and you feel she isnt ready, I don't think its a great idea to tell her yet.
tropic mason
Maybe tell her over text. It helps. If your not ready and you feel she isnt read...
You're right but I'm getting tired of being denied by my own mother. It's kinda uncomfortable when she wants to introduce me to her friends's sons to see if I get a boyfriend, it's even worse when I have to tell these boys that I'm a lesbian and they shouldn't get excited about having a relationship with me
quartz musk
You're right but I'm getting tired of being denied by my own mother. It's kinda ...
Ahh okay. You should to tell her basically this: "I understand you want to help me mum, but I don't want help finding someone. I think I am old enough now to figure out who I want to be with and I don't want you trying to get me together with someone I don't like."
thorny kernel
She's not the homophobic type, she actually supports the lgbt stuff, until it's ...
maybe start off with saying your bi, but lean towards women and slowly just give hints until she accepts it, thats what i did
quartz musk
maybe start off with saying your bi, but lean towards women and slowly just give...
Thats a good idea
thorny kernel
no problem!