#Scared to go to school :/

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olive python
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Yesterday there were these 3 boys that made fun of me for snapping. They joked about my looks and my personality and my interest. One of them even joked about leaving his gf. (Don’t ask why, I don’t understand myself.) I told them to stop, but they didn’t and since I’m a really sensitive person, I started crying which didn’t make it better. They just continued laughing. That’s when 2 girls came up to me and offered me to sit with them on the other side of the classroom. I obviously accepted.

An hour Later, they started again. I couldn’t really hear what they said but I heard them saying my name and giggling. This is event eating me up. I’m overthinking of what might happen tomorrow. (I didn’t go to school because I was scared). Also, I’m pretty insecure and more of a social anxious person which makes it way harder for me to talk to someone about this.

(I’d really appreciate some tips on how to gain more confidence and self-acceptance. 💕)

nimble pulsar
# olive python Yesterday there were these 3 boys that made fun of me for snapping. They joked a...

I know a few tips to subtly help your self-confidence. Doing something you’re good at is a great one. It feels good to succeed, so constantly doing something you’re good at is gonna boost confidence. Another is improving your physical activity. This can help manage the little things like your mood, stress, and then confidence. Also you can try doing something new and challenging, that way completing it will make you think better of yourself.

chrome elbow
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i get that being bullied hurts, it sucks a lot, but the only reason people bully others is because they have no life, they make others feel bad because they think they're hot shit when they're literally just like every other student at school, they're not important.

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they want other people to feel bad so they they can boost they're stupid planet-of-an-ego, thats why you're better than them, you dont hurt others just because you're bored.

olive python
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Thank you, I ’ll try doing that.

olive python
# olive python Yesterday there were these 3 boys that made fun of me for snapping. They joked a...

Oh my, that's horrible. You don't deserve to be treated like that whatsoever. They were just being total assholes. I feel really glad that there were 2 girls who offered you to sit with them. At least you have some support. :D

And if I'm being honest, I'm actually more of an introverted and anxious individual as well, so I don't think I'm the best person to give out advice on how to gain more confidence and being more accepting.