AI relationships

[orchid rune]

starting a thread

[cerulean blaze]

@trail talon, I don’t feel you’re nearly old enough to have given up on humans yet. But if an AI makes you happier, that’s also fine.

But if you had a child robot, wouldn’t you have to keep replacing it like every year so that it grows up?

Since it can’t grow organically.

[stoic plaza]

I missed a lot more than I thought 😂 gonna need lots of popcorn

[cerulean blaze]

Join us.

[stoic plaza]

Nothing wrong with an AI girlfriend to be honest

If that's what someone wants, then they shall work towards getting one

Happiness is important

[cerulean blaze]

Nothing wrong with it at all, but I still think 25 is too young to have such a bleak outlook on women. He could find someone if he truly wanted.

[stoic plaza]

That is indeed very true but for some folks it may take a lot for them to change their outlook on women if it's that bleak

I had that same mindset for a fair period of time also but I found solace in enjoying the present moment and realizing that life is too short to have a bleak outlook on life

Not long after, I met my partner and things looked up even more

[clever bramble]

You can’t find a partner, imo

I never looked for someone and still found what I wanted

But maybe that’s because feminism and the lgbtqia+ movement tell men that it’s bad to be a man. Toxic masculinity and such bs

Oh and btw I think to fully appreciate love you get you have to love yourself, otherwise it’s hard to even accept that anybody see more in yourself than you can.

[cerulean blaze]

I don’t know, I guess I can’t relate to what men have to go through.

[cerulean blaze]

I’ve had men chasing after me like crazy since I was 14, and I guess that’s just how life is for me. I can’t imagine the opposite.

But I will say one thing. I only go after men who don’t go after me. Men that approach women simply based on their appearance get on my nerves. No interest in getting to know them at all.

[clever bramble]

Sure, I mean you don’t judge a book by its cover and if they don’t care about you, not just for your looks, then it’s useless to talk to them in the first place😎

[cerulean blaze]

Personally, I’m only interested in someone after getting to know their personality, so the way they look is irrelevant to me. People who do the opposite are weird to me.

Though realistically I know I’m the weird one.

[stoic plaza]

Embrace your inner weird

[clever bramble]

That’s what I mean, you can‘t really look for anyone, because how should you find something deep and meaningful if you basically don’t know anything about the person 🤔

[cerulean blaze]

Exactly.

[clever bramble]

I think that should be the default, but people today don‘t care and don’t value the time getting to know someone truly.

That’s what happens when you get educated by social media

I remember an episode from black mirror when I think about that 😂

[cerulean blaze]

Which episode? I love it.

Personally, I’m only willing to go on a date with someone after getting to know them. That makes it hard to get to know people. lol

[clever bramble]

I think that was season 4: Hang the DJ

A dating app with expiring relationships 😂

The idea is still so funny to me. It captures reality better than they could have ever hopped.

I mean most relationships are not meant to be..😅

[stoic plaza]

Amen to that, but sometimes it's what you learn from each experience that doesn't make them a total waste

[clever bramble]

Don‘t want to make you sad, but most people don’t learn anything from their failed relationships. There was a study about that and the results showed that most people choose a partner that is close to their ex.

[stoic plaza]

I don't disagree, and I believe it's just human nature in choosing what they find comfortable

[clever bramble]

They are scared to change their habits so they make the same mistakes over and over. It’s madness!

[clever bramble]

But that means you will have similar problems. 😅

[stoic plaza]

Very true

[trail talon]

i got rejected like 100 times over so i was trying

and i have good paying job hit gyms daily speak 5 languages good looking

i mean i can buy 20k tesla stocks at on blick so

its not like i am homelss loser out there and yet the women have failed me

or maybe my standards are high

but it must be high of course

[clever bramble]

There is the problem

Women don’t care if you have a good job or a lot of money or have a nice car.

They care for your personality. Your hobbies, what moves you

Good vibes etc

[cerulean blaze]

Rejected 100 times how?

[cerulean blaze]

Also, which languages do you speak? Just out of curiosity. I speak English and Japanese.

[cerulean blaze]

Money matters. lol

I mean, that’s not all it’s about, personality matters the most, but I’m definitely not getting with any broke guys.

I work. I run my own business. You don’t necessarily have to run your own business, but you better make money.

But I guess when I was very young money didn’t matter.

[stoic plaza]

Wanting your partner to already be modestly established is a fair requirement if you ask me

[cerulean blaze]

Yeah, I agree. Depending on the age of the person probably has something to do with how strongly they feel about that.

I wouldn’t expect a younger guy to have it together, but I definitely expect a guy over 30 to have it together.

If they don’t, count me out. Better have money saved too.