Even if the lobby is private and not in the main server list, it is still possible to join through the friends list join button option if you have a friend in the lobby, which definitely feels unintended.
#Able to join private lobbies via friends list
elder shore
or, if it is intended, it should be noted for creating private lobbies that that is possible
ideally, there would be an option to choose whether or not to let friends join without an invite and such
whole pollen
related bug (that maybe i should just make a separate thread for) is that the password field on private matches only accepts 6 characters