when you join a modded world and you miss some mods its very unclear what mod you are missing (in my opinion). please rewrite the message that shows missing mods.(if possible maybe even the modpack you are playing with a direct link to the mod/modpack)
This is from the modloader (Forge/NeoForge/Fabric), not Essential, and therefore isn't something we have any control over
add a option that players cant send you friendrequests
You can already change who can send you a friend request to either anyone, mutual friends or nobody
add one tab for cosmetics you already have
You can change the filter to owned in the cosmetics tab
add the feature to enable to always open the world automaticly. (you join the world where you selected the feature and your friends (those you allowed) can join without any invite requests)
Players will always need to be invited to join
For the rest of your suggestions/feedback, they should each have individual posts, though you should ensure they haven't been suggested already first