#mais journal
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hurting
it all hurts
hes hurting me
hes pinching my face till its numb
i try pulling away but hes laughing
he kept laughing
i think he was laughing
it wasnt a hilarious joke kind of laughing
but like a scary laugh
im standing next to him
we’re looking into the distance
he holds me
tight
tighter and tighter
it hurts
i didnt want to be rude
my eyes would always water but i would always try to smile
i remember trying to pull away to loosen his grip
but he would hold tighter
always
which was my fault
i shouldve said something
i cant blame him for that
i shouldve told him
in a way i did deserve it
i shouldnt have let him
i shouldve said something
i shouldnt have froze
why did i feel bad
if i didnt none of this wouldve happened
i did love him
but i did hate him
only after
but he couldve been confused
but he was attracted to an eleven year old
i loved him
that was my family
that was my blood
that was my grandfather
of course i loved him
how could i not
he was everything
i was so excited to see him for the first time in years
i remember
we were in a shop
before the flight
looking around for gifts
i pointed out a few
i remember when my dad was on the phone i would beg him to let me talk
that was my grandfather
i wanted him to love me
i always wanted that
when we landed
i didnt even want to be there
i went for him
i remember
they were driving
but it was a big delay to our house
i was upset because i couldnt see him
then i think at around ninepm
on the eighth or ninth of december
2022
my mom told me he was here
i was on a bed
reading
i got up and said hello to everyone
then i stood to avoid making up space
my mom told me to sit with him
i did
i sat on the very edge
making space
he gave me a few glances
i thought he hated me
i hated that i cared so much
his cane dropped on my leg
it hurt
he didnt move it
i dont really remember the rest of the night
apart from disappointment
after a few days he started living with us
he kept asking for my name
over and over
then it all started
aaa
i dont wanna keep talking about depressing shit
as much as i would want to
i havent talked about anything positive
which isnt great
but
i feel sick
i tried studying but
idek
oh my goodness
what the fuck is my life
hes trying to bring me back to that fucking country
its not that i hate the country
no well i do
no offence
but i cant even handle rethinking what happened to me there
let alone go back
and see the spots i sat in
or where we sat together
and where he grabbed me
or pulled me
i cant go back
im losing my shit
he booked the ticket
the more i think about it the more sick i get
im genuinely going to throw up
i can feel him on me
no ones helping
i genuinely hate this so much
eleventh of may is the ticket
fuck knows how long hes going for
i hate this
if i dont go its a waste of money
genuinely i would love to go if none of this shit happened
but i cant
i genuinely know ill end my life
i wanted to last time
even when he moved out
i was terrified
i cant breath
i dont knoe ehet to do
ive genuinely cant
everytime i look at someone i start crying
i did my makeup to try avoid crying
now i just look stupid
i would love to sleep right now
i would love nothing more than that
but these people genuinely cant stay quiet for more than two seconds
what the fuck
last night i made a plan to end my life
not in the moment but for the future
i had a dream i followed through
i left my house
i went down the road
my dads car pulled out and followed
i remember seeing three boys from my school
one of them starts talking to me
after a while i keep walking
i see my dad walking towards me
yelling at me
it was something along the lines of if your going to do it get it over with or dont do it at all
i climbed up the bridge stairs and he followed
i remember him lifting me and throwing me off
when i died i knew i was dead
there was the slightest bit of regret but no pain
its weird but two things happened after
it was like i was spectating my own body
it was weird
it was like on screen that i died
i could still like
think
part of me thought i did something stupid
other part was relief
i remember getting raised from the dead which honestly yeah
and no one really cared
they didnt care i just died
they didnt care i was now alive
everyone just kind of moved
we went to see family
i saw my grandma whos not really my grandma
i saw the kids i babysit who clung onto me
i remember being put on medication
then i woke up
i still want to follow through
i need to
i dont want to be one of those people who tell everyone they will kts and dont follow through
but i dont want anyone to know
and i want to follow through
i honestly dont think people read this
i sound stupid most of the time
i only talk about my ex and things that are driving me insane
but idrk
ive had a few like
reoccurring dreams about this
where i try take my life
plan to take my life
its weird
it feels weird
my grandfather died three years ago today
i dont know how to feel
i didnt realise it was may until right now
am i supposed to be happy
am i supposed to be upset
what do i feel
he lived without consequence
he died with nothing but peace
but i will live everyday till my death not forgetting
i will never forget
i will never get better
ive tried
but i cant
i dont know what to do
i havent relapsed this bad in ages
no ones talking to me
i havent talked to anyone
not properly
i just woke up to my dog plushie fucking barking
i accidentally pushed a button i think
life is great
its 5:30
i feel like shit
i cant walk
well i can
but i cant keep my balance
but like
idk how to explain it
i havent left the house
i feel sick
i dont remember the last time ive eaten properly
im not ghosting anyone right
but either way
no ones reaching out so it doesnt matter
i keep relapsing
i genuinely dont want to do this
its not like i havent tried talking
because i have
like to my parents and shit
like ill try to start a converstation
not that i ever tell them oh im struggling
like
i want to talk
then get to it
but ive tried and they just wont
ill say hi
i get a hi back
and then there busy
i dont blame them
but now there just pissed
because i can barely do shit
idek man
no ones home
im supposed to be at my aunts but as soon as i got downstairs i genuinely felt like i was going to faint
ive never fainted
but like
the feeling of like
about to drop to the floor
was weird
she saw my scars
i feel like shit
i havent eaten
i talked though
i want to feel something
every time i move its genuinely so painful
i can move
i can but i cant
my head hurts but its not like
my whole body feels like carrying double my weight
lwk losing my shit
im genuinely in so much pain
i dont know like
i just feel so heavy
its like i have extra weights tied to me
my head feels horrible
i genuinely have nothing to be upset over
i feel like im going to throw up
but i wont throw up
i might have to go therapy tomorrow
its not that
oh i dont wanna go because i dont want to talk to anyone
its the fact its fucking group therapy
are we deadass
because bro
i dont even care about one on one
one on one is so much better for me
ive missed all the sessions so far
i dont know anyone
ive spent ages growing out my hair
but i genuinely cant take care of myself
and i need to cut it
but bro ive spent years growing it out
i know i need to cut it
but
idek
my mom made me take her antidepressants
i think im going to my gp tomorrow
but i need to make an appointment
i feel so shit
i know i should eat but i cant
i dont have an ed right
but its just
idek
im trying to get better
ive tried
im talking
im going on walks
but i feel the same
i dont think im going to the gp tmr
idk
i only wanted to go to get medication because im lwk losing my shit
apparently they cant give it to under eighteens
i dont see a point in going
im taking antidepressants though
i dont see that much of a difference except feeling a bit sick after taking them
i have a redbull
i bought a new flavour
genuinely tastes so ass
i dont wanna waste it
but i cant drink it
it tastes like banana
its supposed to be cherry
what the fuck
im going to my gp at twopm
im so scared
i dont know what to say
or ask
i kind of blanked
and idk what i need
anymore
i went
well no my mom explain everything for me
they said they cant do anything
since theyve referred me before
to this mental health thing
so we went there
and i was on there list for dbt but its group
so i said i didnt want to do group
but for one on one its another year
to wait
my life is great
i took the anti depressants
i broke it in half
only because i shouldnt really be taking it
but im genuinely not getting help anywhere
and i dont know what to do
i hate to be weird and sappy
but i genuinely miss my ex
that was my boy
i miss holding hands for a extra second to long
i miss walking home
i miss texting even if he rarely did
i miss him actually opening up about how he felt
i miss our converstations
i miss how we couldnt imagine a future without eachother
i miss the fact people would hate us being us but we would do it anyways
i miss ragebaiting people together
i miss his brown eyes
i miss the marks on his face
i miss the small gap between his teeth
i miss him talking about his jobs
i miss him talking about his family
i miss us so much
i hate how horrible of i person i was
i grew up in a household where things that shouldnt have been normalised were
i hate how shitty of a person that made me
my area was heavily racist and i hate to be like oh it wasnt my fault
but it was more common to be a racist than not to be
i hate that i was copying everyone else
i hate that i tried to fit in by being like them
i didnt realise until not even that long ago that what i was doing was stupid
and i hate that its so recent
because everything i did is fresh
i grew up in a homophobic household making me just become a copy and paste
now i think i like woman
i hate how stupidly racist i was for no reason
i hate myself so much for all of that
i genuinely feel disgusting remembering all of it
i hate this
i miss him
i was throwing out my old school shit
i couldnt get rid of the papers that i knew had his touch
i couldnt get rid of the books i used his pen on
i couldnt get rid of the homework books they would give that me and him used to rip paper out of
i stayed up the full night on his birthday
i messaged him at midnight
in hopes of a reply
i never got one
i want to sob
we were supposed to grow old together
he promised
i sobbed for hours when i found out my mom threw all our old notes away
those stupid papers we passed in class
i reread those after we ended
so many times
every day i pray
i pray for him to come back
i dont believe in god
but i wish he comes back
everyday
i miss sneaking under his umbrella to try pissing him off but he offered it and we ditched our friends to walk together
i miss reposting every fuckass video that had his initial or reminded me of him
july 22nd 2:43pm
our last call
he told me he was inlove with her
he told me i was his bestfriend
i knew she was in love with him
she hated me for being with him
i wish i didnt tell him she did have feelings for him
maybe he wouldve changed his mind
he told me she wanted his snap so i just told him
then his tone changed
then he kept talking about her
how pretty she was
how smart she was
how everything she was
but he said the same about me not even that long before
i genuinely feel like i might throw up
that was my boy
im so fucking close to swallowing all these fuckass tablets
im genuinely losing my shit
what the fuck
i didnt
but im so scared to sleep
the last time i made a plan i had genuinely a horrible dream
probably spoke ab it
but idek
idk why i just
like
i hate all these fuckass people
like
i sound like a bitch
but what
i dont understand the concept anymore
i used to be reallyreally attached to everyone i met
i feel like the complete opposite now
i enjoy there company
but i can survive without them
i could ghost all of them today and live life the same
i hate that
i wish i had some kind of like
need to keep hold of everyone
but i cant
i cant feel anything
it either everything or nothing
and out of all of that i only have attachment to a guy who couldnt give a shit less about me
and people who have passed
i dont believe in anything anymore
but i was religious and its genuinely like
i went from being terrified to go to hell to like not believing
at first i still prayed just out of fear
then i just stopped
everything became so unreal
and like when i was religious i couldnt believe people werent
now its the opposite
its like
i dont even know
so when i miss these people
when i mourn theyre losses
all i can think about is how they dont know
they dont know i sob randomly years later
they dont know how much i cared
they dont know how much i wished it was me
but there just unconscious and gone
and i hate that
i hate that so much
they cant hear my sobs
they cant feel my pain
theyre just gone
there unground and will never see anything again
they wont be able to talk to me
wont be able to play
i wont be able to take stuff out her hair
she will never know how much i cared because i didnt say it aloud
she wont know i stared at her sleeping form hoping she’d wake just so i could talk to someone
even though i would feel guilty if she did
she will never know how much i spoke about her
she will never know about how her words echo through my mind
she will never know how her deceased body is permanently etched into my mind since i was eleven years old
she will never know the disbelief i felt when she was pronounced dead
she will never know the amount of times i hoped i was dreaming and she would wake up
she will never know i picked out my old toys which i never gave out just to give her to see her happy
she will never know how much i would do to hold her again
she will never know how she would be right now if she hadnt got into that car
she will never know what its like to be an adult
she will never know what its like to be inlove
she will never know the cries of people who didnt get to know her the time she was alive but cried anyways
she will never know what its like to grow old
she will never know how it feels to do anything anymore
because she no longer can
every bone in my body is so filled with grief, i dont know how much longer i can last, i go from wanting to die to being terrified of death and wanting to live forever, i hate that she didnt get the chance to live. she will never get the chance to live again, she will never know how much i miss her everyday, she will never know the tears i have cried, she will never know the yells from the funeral still ring in my ears, she will never know the horror and the sketch of her deceased etched into my head showing up in my dreams as if shes still alive, she will never know what wouldve happened if she didnt get into the car, she will never know how it feels to be in love, she will never know how it feels to grow old, she will never feel again, she will never love again, she will never be alive again, it has been 1225 days since she was last happy, 1256 since she was in my arms for the first time in years. she will never be free and i hate that
i hate talking about this because it creeps me out in a way but i remember one of my other cousins ran after the car
when it first started moving
he yelled at them to not go
he has like very strong autism so like everyone assumed it wasnt much
after a while
i wasnt here but the story scares me
him and his mom were in a room
she was finishing up something
and he says my cousins name saying shes in heaven
that scares the fuck out of me
the accident didnt happen
not yet atleast
the next day after the accident
when she was hours dead
he was walking around looking for her
like he wasnt aware of what he said
i od’d last night
holy fuck never doing that shit again
i didnt take a crazy amount
i didnt sleep
i was sick basically all night
my parents are on my dick
im getting my phone taken
and my room
my life is peak
i feel like shit
i look like shit
i wish i didnt tell my mom i did od
because now im not even allowed to do shit alone
i spent all night awake
we were going to go hospital and shit but i didnt take much
well
i went over the amount
but
it wasnt deadly in a way
i look horrible
i cant eat
i feel sick if i think of food
i was doing so well
usually when i have like
times where i just completely feel like shit
its a few months apart
its been a few weeks and i feel like this again
walking makes my head want to fall out my skull
shit i think i like girls
and boys
and everyone
i dont know
i dont care what anyone calls me
boy girl nonbinary i dont really care
i dont know
like
i dont really knowp
labels throw me off
i want to be unlabelled and love who i want to love
regardless of gender
but i dont know
i dont want to be in a sexual relationship with anyone
i dont want intimacy
i find people pretty
and attractive
maybe im just a fucking narcissist
anyways
but
i would want to be with someone but not in a relationship way
that made no sense
i want a boyfriend
i want a girlfriend
but i dont
i dont want it to be like a relationship
i dont want to be intimate
or anything
i dont knowo
i feel like im going to throw up
im panicking
my fuckass doctor wont call me
they were supposed to half an hour ago
i feel so sick of anxiety right now oh my fucking god
it feels so fucking selfish to live without her
i hate summer
so much
everytime i go out theres people hanging out with there friends
wait im losing my shit
i dont care
im not supposed to care
why do i care
i havent cared if anyone was mad at me for ages
why the fuck do i care
i hate this shit
oh my god
i hate this so much
i hate how much im feeling right now
all day
ive been feeling so much
out of nowhere