how does one know that a person is worth sticking to i really cant tell, been talking to this girl and ive told her how ive been stressing because of exams etc and shes been as always distant when i wouldve offered to listen to her struggles idk if its selfish of me to ask for solace and honestly idk what to do.
#what to do when you feel unheard in a relationship.
left reef
and for context in the past ive always felt unheard that what i had to say fell on deaf ears in general and when i confronted her ab it for 3 times maybe 4 she either took it personally telling me “idk how u could say such mean things to me i would never do this to u” or she just ignored it or straight up told me she wasnt feeling confrontational, which ofc i took into consideration yet she seems to have the energy to only talk casually and almost always whats going on with her
what should i do with that lol if anyone has feedback id appreciate it alot 🙏 ❤️
for more context i do acknoweldge that ive been pushing the relationship to be something deep and meaningful too quickly and unaturally and that was my mistake but her taking my confrontation personally when i remained polite with it or straight up ignore what i said or say she doesnt have the energy for confrontation yet she seems fine with casual talk and like i said mostly seems ab her and maybe i am biased here, but yeah ultimately i dont think shes willing to invest as much as i want to invest she doesnt care to see me for who i am and when i complain about not being heard oh well yall know by now how she reacts lmao