Kind words save lives. | Huddle | Page 1

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i try breathing habits with him, but he won't calm down to listen and try. just the usual 'it wont work' or 'i dont care'

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he left me a ||suicide note|| this morning, but he's done that before

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i never know if he'll follow through

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he struggles, but a lot of it is done by him

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he kind of forces emotions onto himself he doesnt need

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does that make sense?

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its like - he knows he can get better, but he wont let himself. he's scared to hope and doesnt like to listen to anything that doesnt support exactly what he wants to hear

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he's a 'my way or no way' kind of guy, but u cant get proper help like that

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i dont want to bow down and serve it on a silver platter, but i dont know how to be kind about it without being a pushover

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i have

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he wont

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he says it wont work or he cant

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hes capable of so much more, but he wont allow himself to change or grow

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he finds some sort of closure by locking himself in his thoughts - bc its smth he can control

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and gets mad when smth out of his control occurs

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including others actions

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and i understand that, but i dont know how to handle his naricism and entitlement

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he really believes if one person does bad, everyone else will too

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that everything is a domino effect

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i could, and he'd say no, but he doesn't do anything to change it

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he tells me all these problems he has, but he also says he doesnt want to solve them

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i dont understand what he expects

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ive tried

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he's obsessive, and he needs help

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i dont want to do it, but someone has to

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id feel like shit if someone died bc i didnt know what else to do

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i dont

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i do the opposite

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i shoot down his pessimism

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i tell him to stop and pick himself up

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neither works

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i know i should step away

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but ive always been bad at that

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ive tried that too

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im self-sacrificing

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think he has already

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i cant tell if that was meant to be helpful or passive-aggressive

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im trying

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im just at a loss

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i dont know what would fix everything

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i could leave

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that fixes my issue

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but not his

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he's not my responsibility, but no one else will do anything

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wish i knew how to do that too

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yeah

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and dreams are hallucinations

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figments of the heart and mind

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doesnt make them any less

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my opinion isnt wrong

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its right to me

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it may constrast to you perspective, but that doesnt make it wrong

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opinions cant be wrong

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are you now

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i dont know what i expect to find in this server anymore. it doesnt make any sense

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1986 relationships were a lot different than 2025 mental health in teens

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no offense

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i never said that

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congrats

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happy to hear that

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no

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i said things are different now

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ur making assumptions of what im saying

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biased ones

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theyre called assumptions

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if u dont want to be apart of this, u are welcome to leave

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have a nice day

#Kind words save lives.