cinder schooner
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#discordimpact
brazen fern
ok
omg wow
so , from what most of you know , the first strike : "i wanna flirt with samito but i dont want to be a lesbian" . this is offensive to me and my lesbians friends ive shared this with , i tried explaining abt how it was offensive to the user idk where my msg is now but they completely shut me , the second strike , and said i was being sensitive which is honestly stupid , no matter how many times i tried being polite i kept hearing "ur being overdramatic" and then the third strike , oliver says they're sorry that i have to experience this and that this server isn't for this topic . look , i get that it isn't the server to educate others and that i should've dmed ur nerdy modmail or wtv but yall would've just given a warning n call it a day . and then the fourth strike , user ev says that rude stuff (in my thread , check it out .) good for them that they "explained" their side , i appreciate the fact that you're trying to 'resolve' this situation but it don't really matter in your hands . im still getting harassed by the people from this server on my twt , "oh just tell us the @'s" yall rlly thinking its helping ? no , it isn't . most of the members calling this serious topic a "drama" , "oh they should've worded it correct" . . . worded what correct ? lesbophobia and that me educating should stop and take it to dms ? i don't think so . good for the mods that apologized , sucks i won't accept it . fifth strike , oliver again , "this isn't the place" aww should i take it to dms ? smh , could've at least ACKNOWLEDGE the stuff i was saying . L telling me to stop when i told them that they can't the word "lesbophobia" with the 'O' bcs its used against lesbians in a derogatory way , what did i get ? a warning and then later on banned . "they kept telling you to stop , they possibily are uncomfy" +
non-lesbians CANNOT feel uncomfy abt this topic , idk how its not clicking in ur head , moving on .
lesbophobia that should be discussed in this server , "why?" bcs lesbophobia is normalized in this fandom
it is NOT a sensitive topic
I get that these two mods were on trail but . . on most servers that i applied to be mod on or staff tbh they'd always ask on questions about what would happen if situations like this would happen . . you guys said that there's trolls joining the server to stir up "drama" then isn't it easy to tell that i WASN'T trolling during the time ? the staff have told me that i should've read the rules , do you really think that a human emotion and struggle is less important that ur stupid discord rule ? if you do think so , sorry to say this but then you're a total weirdo . +
most of the people who were telling me to move on and stop wasn't because they were "uncomfortable" , the hated the fact that i was pointing it out . . anyone with common sense could tell
but since you guys care more for the server's reputation i got a warning for speaking upon a "sensitive topic 🥺" its honestly bullshit
after me getting banned , people kept saying i should've taken it to dms , you're expecting to explain to 4 other people at a time ? "oh then modmail-" do NOT speak at all . the staff would only given a warning , we all know it .
there was other lesbophobic stuff that was going on before i even join this server , none the staff did anything ?
i asked people who were in the server and they said that the staff only warned them .
damn
any excuse for that ?
anyways
lesbophobia is something that you can NEVER move on .
it always stays .
acknowledge that
idc if its a "gaming" server they should've listened at that time
if one these staffs hit me with some bible rule stuff im literally going to assume ur a total lesbophobe .
these people knew what they were doing , lesbophobia is everywhere in this fandom , and everywhere else .
again , since most of the staff care for the reputation they've deleted everything regarding the issue .
not sure if they even listen but , a ban is easy enough to stop this , "why tho , they don't deserve it" shutting me up while was trying to educate about lesbophobia , real nice ! "they explain what they said" they explain what they were "trying to say" after they realize people are finding the thread out .
i feel like a ban for a few days is going to be okay .
silk hill
do we need this