How to prevent the edge from bending at the wrong place

[winged tangle]

Here I have a node that creates a fork in the workflow and joins back to a single node afterwards, but if there is a mismatch in nodes on the left and right hand side of the fork, the edge bends over asymmetrically from the other side.

How can I go about mending that? I don't think offset works because when I create the edge and add pathOptions: {offset: 1337} to it nothing happens

I am using Dagre to layout the workflow.

I would want it to bend at the same place as the right-hand side edge is. I understand why this is happening - because edges are attached to nodes and there are missing nodes on the left-hand side, but still I assume there is a way to bypass that.