#transdome

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unborn atlas
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for clarity's sake

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stealth and boymode are different things, right?

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like

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stealth is presenting as your gender and boymode is just going "fuckit" and refusing (from a transfeminine perspective)

bronze ocean
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boymode is pretending to be a boy yeah

inland schooner
# unborn atlas like

stealth is telling noone, aside from people who already know. for me atleast. it varies person to person but thats the general consensus yea

unborn atlas
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right

fallow moon
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:3

fallow moon
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making a knife

zenith turtle
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while saying fuck it would be like embracing the things that might clock u

snow loom
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yeah im stealthing

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(hides in a cardboard box with a 🏳️‍⚧️ on it)

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stealth stuff is weird for me because i dont like the idea of just being cis

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im a uniquely gender fucked mess and im proud of it

unborn atlas
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I get that

snow loom
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i basically boymoded until i wasn't able to for a while

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it eventually gets too much imo

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(if you're in a safe environment of course)

unborn atlas
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sometimes I just don't want people to comment on it and exist as a sort of

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ambiguous blob

snow loom
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i think about when i boymoded while starting hrt in school because i had to hide the chest pain of breast development and my hips growing and i came up with the silliest excuses

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literally screamed in a class because of it and had to pretend i had a cramp or something lol

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(she was awful at this. good job)

zinc oriole
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Old men acknowledge Im a guy but still look at me profoundly confused bc of my long hair and clothing choices. I'm happy being at this state

unborn atlas
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I live in a small country town and the most extreme opinion I get is from well intentioned but clueless older people who sort of patronizingly say I'm brave

zinc oriole
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The worst I get is people standing too close to me and staring

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until they get mad that Im not reacting and walk away

snow loom
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i love confusing the fuck out of people

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the british tourists here look at me so much

fallow moon
snow loom
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british trans people have some kind of immunity to being british

unborn atlas
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sometimes I do it again if I'm feeling >:}

snow loom
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need hrt that makes you an unknowable horror

zenith turtle
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I truly do not know how I am perceived at least by strangers

unborn atlas
zenith turtle
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with friends it’s easy to tell if they think im a girl or nah

snow loom
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or hrt that makes you into a hot robot girl

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need that

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i played signalis and now i feel that

zenith turtle
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I need HRT that makes me crazy (progesterone)

unborn atlas
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HRT that turns you into

snow loom
zinc oriole
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hrt has turned me definitely more into that

snow loom
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prog rocks but forgetting hrt is evil

zinc oriole
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trans people have thought i was cis which im glad i pass but also :( i dont wanna seem like

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idk id rather trans people know theyre ok with me

zenith turtle
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if I got on progesterone rn I would prolly go crazyyyy

unborn atlas
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I can't get on prog :/

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I want to!

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but my endo won't let me

zenith turtle
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me too I’m gonna switch once I get my orchiectomy

unborn atlas
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couldn't be me tho

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I'm a woman with the voice of Christopher Lee

zenith turtle
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I had a close friend who passed away recently and I’m trying very hard to at least keep up with all my transition related stuff becuz they were also trans and would want me to stay with ittt

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like I’m so so sad about them but I’m going to my appt for cardiac clearance tomorrow because of them

unborn atlas
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oh that's rough

snow loom
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had mine back in october and it def fixed a lot of the instability i felt with hormonal stuff

zenith turtle
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yea superrr rough it’s been a week since and I’m still here

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yea spiro literally disables me but I’d rather have that than lots of T in my system

snow loom
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i had kidney stones because of spiro in september 2021 and severe depression from cypro and that was the moment i just realised i had to get off this stuff

zenith turtle
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I’m realllllly good at drinking water for spiro

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I got really good at it somehow but I’m so so ready to get off it

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it worked for me temporarily though

unborn atlas
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I am worried about getting any sort of surgery

zenith turtle
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ditto but I can stuff it down for orchiectomy cuz it’s minimally invasive and going to do so so much for me

unborn atlas
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filling my body full of weirdo chemicals that cause me to pupate into some body horror monstrosity is fine but cutting bits off is a one way thing yanno?

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I don't even produce testosterone at male levels anymore

zenith turtle
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orch will prolly help reduce dysphoria for me more than a lot of stuff could which is nice

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deep down I wish I could have bottom surgery but I don’t have the money at all

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and it would just be agonizing

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but I also have some sort of identity with the genitals I have? ||i would consider myself a girl with a dick|| and enjoy this label

unborn atlas
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identity is a weird one

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I don't think I "identify" as anything

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I just am

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but yeah like

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do what you need for dysphoria

snow loom
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i think its funny comparing pre/post photos because i look actually like i have a desire to live lmaooo

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also damn i realised how good my pixel 7 pro camera is on the bottom

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whew

austere jay
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going stealth has been relatively rewarding for me because while being trans is a big part of my life, in day to day i’m really some guy

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i get along very well with other cis dudes and it’s nice to just talk without transness hanging over ever conversation which i had to deal with a lot before t

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most people around here and respectful and accepting they just have a tendency to ask a million questions i don’t feel like answering

bronze ocean
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this is so real

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gotta have a good balance between that and also having trans friends so you dont go crazy having to interact with only cis people

timid grail
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i feel u vinny

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ALSO YEAH

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if i only interacted with cis people id lose my mind

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speaking of cis people my current relationship is the first time ive dated a cis man and im really surprised and happy that my bf is so good about trans stuff and so accepting. ive been t4t for all my other relationships (mostly trans men) and i was worried id either get a transphobe or a chaser but my bfs ex was also a trans man so he came into the relationship already being educated on trans topics and it was nice not having to like. explain everything like he instantly respected my boundaries and asked what language makes me comfortable etc

timid grail
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his ex came out while he was dating him and he didnt know i was trans until i said something so its nice to feel respected since i was always worried id been just seen as a woman with a cis man

austere jay
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my t4t streak continues

bronze ocean
cold whale
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OH SHIT I DIDNT KNOW THERE WAS A T4T FLAG

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thta is so me

exotic wagon
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sameee

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like ive met some rly cool cis ppl that i probably would have dated but idk. theres something about both being trans where you just understand each other on a deeper that hits diff. for me at least

inland schooner
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cuz of the fact i started transitioning mid last year and also moved schools last year. my friends know me from 'pre T' and now. (we werent friends pre-T) and sometimes they mention how much i used to look girly and im like yeah lol isnt that weird?

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using the power of deflection.... i use this statements to affirm my gender...

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(they dont know im trans)

empty goblet
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i feel like a lot of cis ppl have ~expectations~

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and trans ppl usually treat me right <3

unborn atlas
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different wavelength

empty goblet
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i am definitely t4t bc i love when ppl can see me as i am - i could love a cis person tho~ but most of my crushes r trans :P

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there are cis people who can understand................... #rare

bronze ocean
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real and felt

unborn atlas
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I want to trust that people can be good

zinc oriole
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As much as I'd wanna date a cis guy I feel like every time I talk to them they try to upstage their masculinity towards me (even if they think I'm cis too) idk if that's just a thing that they do or what but they're always making a point

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It's insecure lol I'm just chilling here...

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Maybe I've just talked to guys who suffer from toxic masculinity

bronze ocean
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thats a pretty common thing yeah lol

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its basically what the entire conception of masculinity in like 'normal' society is all about it really sucks

zinc oriole
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:[

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I think the funniest thing that's happened from it though is a dude saying I 'dress like an asshole' under his breath bc he was talking abt how he also used to dress punk

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/was a punk

bronze ocean
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now, tbf, this can be a compliment

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but it definitely wasnt

unborn atlas
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I hope you find some nontoxic cis dudes

bronze ocean
fallow moon
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trangenf

bronze ocean
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bandsgender 🤑

fallow moon
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🏳️‍⚧️

normal arch
fallow moon
cold whale
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who up transing they anarchy

normal arch
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Yesss I am

zinc oriole
zinc oriole
bronze ocean
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manifesting this for u

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hehe get it

zinc oriole
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Hehehe :] yes

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Thank youuuu

fallow moon
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t4t these nuts lmao (i am jealous of t4t relationships)

vapid dune
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I wouldn’t mind dating a cis girl but no one gets you quite like t4t :3

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Super based relationships

fallow moon
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😢

austere jay
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discovered exactly what to do to make me look like a man and not a boy at work

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i’ve been getting gendered correctly 100% of the time, mostly by old cis dudes, but they all address me like i’m a kid

unborn atlas
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what do you do??

austere jay
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until today when i tucked in my shirt and rolled up my sleeves and i’ve been getting constantly called sir

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praise god

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keys on the belt look help too i thjnk

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do i feel like kne of the outsiders? yeah but that’s a very small price to pay to be called sir by every redneck that walks through the store

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feels so fucking good

final heart
spice sphinx
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:3

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I fell for it

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(I am now missing an arm and half of my face)

calm cape
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What are good at-home hair removal options I should look at? I'm so tired of shaving my legs

misty harness
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epilation

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kinda hurts for the first couple months but after a few years it has helped thin the hair a bit for me

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at home laser is hella risky and i wouldn't risk it

calm cape
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Does it last longer than shaving?

misty harness
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Yes

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It's just rapid plucking essentially

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I get like four or five days of no visible hair at all

calm cape
misty harness
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again, it hurts at the beginning

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but its not much worse than getting professional laser

calm cape
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Have you ever tried nair or any hair removal cream like that? That's another thing I've seen people talk about

misty harness
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nah

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oh one thing with epilation, it irritates your skin quite a bit and takes several hours to go away so you def have to plan a day ahead if you wanna do it before going out

calm cape
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I'm def gonna look into the epilator. The only thing I would be worried about is doing genital areas that are sensitive and hard to reach. How much potential it has for cuts/nicks compared to shaving?

misty harness
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oh yeah it doesn't work in sensitive areas well

calm cape
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Damn

misty harness
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its too painful

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but it's relatively quick on arms and legs and lasts long

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as long as it can anyway without going for actual semi-permanent removal

calm cape
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Is it significantly slower than shaving? Doing legs and torso for me already takes a fucking long time

misty harness
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it will be to start depending on pain tolerance

calm cape
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Hmmm alright I'll check it out

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If anyone has any experience with Nair or other hair removal cream like that lmk tho cause that seems like it would be the easiest way to do hard to reach areas

zinc oriole
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It can work in sensitive areas if you arent sensitive to the product itself

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its a bit time consuming and if your hair grows in thick it may take a lot of the product but it takes way longer for the hair to grow back, so its worth it. also I've heard wax strips work well too but are also time consuming (and hurt!) Nair and any hair removal cream is trial and error since the formulas differ, I'd suggest ones designed for thicker hair since they tend to last longer

calm cape
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Alright, thanks!

zinc oriole
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I wish u the best of luck!

unborn atlas
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I epilate my eyebrows

unborn atlas
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I got trans faygo

fallow moon
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read that without the y by accident

unborn atlas
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what are you some kind of 🏳️‍🌈 faygo? 🏳️‍🌈

spice sphinx
unborn atlas
spice sphinx
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:(

zinc oriole
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I've never gotten to have faygo it's always sold out

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Idk if there's a hidden juggalo community here or smth but there's only ever the ginger ale one

unborn atlas
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I never saw a faygo in the real world before so I was like "haha clown drink"

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wasn't worth it

chrome snow
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I feel like I have never seen a bottle of faygo my entire life.

balmy pond
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It looks like something youd put cough syrup in

unborn atlas
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nasty but you right

vapid dune
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I’ve had orange and strawberry faygo and that’s it. Idk where tf people get it from it just sort of appears at gatherings cus I’ve never seen it in stores

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It manifests itself into existence at parties, no one bought it it’s just there cus where tf do you even buy faygo

unborn atlas
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juggalo manifestations

balmy pond
unborn atlas
fallow moon
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gay gay homosexual gay

vapid dune
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Tramsgemder

unborn atlas
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kwier

balmy pond
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unborn atlas
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oah

chrome snow
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HE TOOK WHAT TO POLAND

unborn atlas
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you know

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a walk

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he took the walk to Poland 🚶

chrome snow
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I'm sorry, I don't know what walking is.

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:((

unborn atlas
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I dunno what to tell you man

vapid dune
bronze ocean
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joey walks so much they dont even think about it

balmy pond
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Who up transing their gender rn?

bronze ocean
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ohh

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you better believe im transing

valid cloud
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meee

misty harness
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we

snow loom
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i got my silly estrogen on

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we're doing it baby

unborn atlas
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I'm actually on my way to get a fresh implant

snow loom
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you got implanted estrogen?

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pog

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i want that

civic ibex
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i want that but for t

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tbh highly looking into gel or patches bc i live with my dad so no worry of any femmes getting any tgel on them

unborn atlas
snow loom
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how did you get that

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i gotta find it

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thats so cyberpunk

unborn atlas
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I am now

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freshtrogen

unborn atlas
snow loom
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how is it for you and how does it work

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i never spoke to someone who had something like that and im like

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give me give me give me

unborn atlas
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it's a little pellet that gets implanted into my hip

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and it lasts me about 9 to 12 months

snow loom
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NEED

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idk how available it is here

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probably is but idk how i'd do it

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how much is it

unborn atlas
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like 50 bucks

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it's a procedure that cis women can undergo, my endo just does it on me

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but nobody else seems to be aware that it's an option

snow loom
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50 bucks, no need for perscription refills constantly

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why the hell do i NOT KNOW ABOUT THIS

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i gotta get an endo going here

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only got my GP

unborn atlas
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I hope you can figure it out

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eventually it might be nice to move to America and I really hope I can continue to take E like this

snow loom
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im in canada

unborn atlas
snow loom
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im sorry for my loss

unborn atlas
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speaking of trans stuff I got a haircut

fallow moon
chrome snow
winter fulcrum
unborn atlas
zinc oriole
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_ _

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Nothing girl

unborn atlas
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mere being

spice sphinx
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_ _

spice sphinx
snow loom
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my gender is literally

unborn atlas
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how does one quantify a gender anyway

bronze ocean
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calculus

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trigonometry

unborn atlas
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how do you distill the essential essence of the intersection of your identity, presentation and overall <hand gesture> vibes

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flowery prose is fun

bronze ocean
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true!!

spice sphinx
unborn atlas
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my gender is the aphotic core of an ocean planet

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we've never found life on another planet

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but we can't see into this one so 👀 💦

spice sphinx
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I’ve always been fascinated by theories of Europan sea life

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This is where I post from

austere jay
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vinny gender is big meat head executioner type character

civic ibex
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pyramid head

austere jay
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massive and silent and wielding a big weapon of some sort

austere jay
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tbh

bronze ocean
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good gender

civic ibex
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vry good

austere jay
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any buff faceless guy is incredibly vinny

bronze ocean
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shin dhd with his mask on

austere jay
austere jay
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he’s just like me (weird, gay)

bronze ocean
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OKAY TRU

unborn atlas
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Vinny got an immaculate gender on it

bronze ocean
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risu very good gender

bronze ocean
austere jay
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i’ve curated my gender over an extended period of time

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it’s a collectors item

austere jay
unborn atlas
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limited edition transparent red fire-toolz gender

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wait wait I got one

bronze ocean
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has anybody in this thread played heaven will be mine

unborn atlas
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there's a gender

bronze ocean
unborn atlas
austere jay
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some gender. just a little bit

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i think it’s funny that as soon as i started t my transition goal went from sort of twinkish weird scraggly man to massive hulking beast

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i took ONE .25 ml dose of EVIL TRANSGENDER HORMONES and i gained 200 POUNDS of MUSCLE!!!!

unborn atlas
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twink to chad transition

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estrogen made me slimy

austere jay
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testosterone made me measurably more evil

chrome snow
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Measurably more based

austere jay
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that too tbh

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mostly now all i think about are cheeseburgers and my partner

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i live a simple life

zinc oriole
austere jay
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other testosterone mentality changes include constantly wanting to lift and weird obsessive interest with cars and dragon ball z

unborn atlas
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I heard this thing once

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from a physician, I think

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maybe a bit of a reactionary being edgy but it kinda went hard

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about estrogen having a "wild madness" to it

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ngl that's kinda how it feels 👀

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I don't feel as stoic and immovable as I used to

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I am curious how testosterone manifests for trans men tho

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the perspective of previously being in one state and then shifting to the other

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that shit is rad

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we contain divinity within us

austere jay
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i feel a lot more like…. firm and centered if that makes sense

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i thjnk a lot less

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feel like i’ve become and ape of sorts

unborn atlas
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hm!!!!

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I do think I mellowed out tho

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like I feel less compulsively angry

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and it's also harder to work out

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the female experience of <whines> "I can't open this jaaaaar"

bronze ocean
unborn atlas
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I heard of it but never played

bronze ocean
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its very good its really trans gender

unborn atlas
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fucked up if true

unborn atlas
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I also heard Extreme Meat Punks Forever is also a queer mecha game

bronze ocean
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yea!!

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its very fun

unborn atlas
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but it looks a mote more twee

bronze ocean
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exogenous testosterone takers, is it true that u have gotten a more intense craving for hammed and/or cheesed burger?

unborn atlas
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does exogenous mean on the outside?

bronze ocean
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ye

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endogenous is when its from inside

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like ur endocrine system

unborn atlas
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like an injection I assume

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as opposed to gel or sticker

bronze ocean
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no any outside source, pills, patches, gels, cremes, salves, injections, depots, etc., etc.

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tinctures perhaps even

unborn atlas
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i take implant

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but I need not apply because I'm not on T

bronze ocean
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very nice

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it sounds very convenient

unborn atlas
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but I did want to say that burger is probably my favourite food

bronze ocean
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im interested in burger opinions regardless

unborn atlas
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like a good burger

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maccas counts as good burger

bronze ocean
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i just heard ppl on T say that they had craving for Burger since they started T and i thought it was kinda funny like

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cheese. burger

unborn atlas
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a store bought patty with spices in it

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isn't

bronze ocean
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i agree with this

unborn atlas
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the quintessential transfeminine good craving is pickles

bronze ocean
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mostly because of overrepresentation from ppl taking a (too) large dosage of spiro tbh

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but, i do like pickle

unborn atlas
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I dated a girl once who used the phrase

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"I'd rather chew my spiro"

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I should call her

bronze ocean
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hmm crunchy

austere jay
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testosterone just makes me want to smash things with rocks

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simplest way to put it

bronze ocean
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ohh

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that sounds like fun

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i wanna smash things with a rocks..

unborn atlas
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OH

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the male urge to break a big rock

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or a big thing of ice

bronze ocean
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rock

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i think if i smashed a rock with a bigger rock it would fix me

unborn atlas
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I think if another trans woman complimented my clothes I'd become unkillable

austere jay
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there’s a trans girl working the desk of the pharmacy that i get my testosterone from and she’s always so nice it feels like a genuine moment of community when she gets my prescription for me

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like we see each other we don’t need to say anything about it but we both know

spice sphinx
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Fuck yeah !!

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Solidarity

unborn atlas
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:)

zinc oriole
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Does anybody else feel a difference from t gel vs injections? Maybe it's bc I've been on T for a long time now but gel makes me feel emotionally a lot better

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Not that injections were anything stressful for me I don't have a fear of needles but idk there's an emotional change

zenith turtle
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at least with E I know the method of delivery heavily effects ur hormone levels thru time

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injections with E cause a lot more of a rise of hormones but simultaneously a much harsher drop of hormones which can cause hot flashes and emotional ness and I imagine that the same thing applies to T

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that difference is prolly cuz ur hormones are more level thruout the day with the gel

unborn atlas
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I had the option for gel when I was starting out but like

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I'm worried it would get on my clothes

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or like, on other people

zenith turtle
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I personally really like E pills although spiro sucks lowkey for me

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just excited to get on progesterone whenever that comes

spice sphinx
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Not a fan of sublingual tbh

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That’s what I have to do for my estradiol at least

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Spiro and prog I just take as pills

zenith turtle
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sublingual is def a little strange

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it has a similar but slightly different patterns thruout the day

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from pills

spice sphinx
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I wonder if patches are a little more consistent

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I’ve heard some people prefer those

unborn atlas
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patches irritated my skin

civic ibex
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i want gel tbh

unborn atlas
empty goblet
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:3

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she looks the way i feel

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transition goals

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:3

spice sphinx
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Literally me irl

zinc oriole
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These are such spectacular gemders....

zinc oriole
bronze ocean
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☝️ues

zinc oriole
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As long as u aren't immediately touching people with it and cover it with clothes it's fine

bronze ocean
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im on sprays but its much the same

zinc oriole
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I didn't know there were sprays!

bronze ocean
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uhh idk if theres T sprays but im on estrogen sprays

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but from my cursory knowledge of biochemistry i wouldnt see why there wouldnt be testosterone sprays, it might just not be commercially viable in most places or something

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but yeah its like, 5 minutes after you've put it on? you shouldnt have skin-to-skin contact

zinc oriole
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Uses the t spray like mouth wash

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That'd be cool though

zenith turtle
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fun fact theres no T pills because if ur liver had to process T pills regularly it would explode

bronze ocean
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hmm yum

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yeah i dont want that i need my liver for other pills!!!

bronze ocean
zinc oriole
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Back when I did injections T got on my hand a few times so

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I've tasted it once or twice lol (don't do this)

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For those who are curious it has a sweet syrupy taste and smell

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My liver already explode.... I'd be torn asunder

bronze ocean
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were u on valerate or cypionate (does t valerate even exist?) im curious

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i wanna see what the usual suspension oil is

zenith turtle
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kind of strange to think about how fundamentally life changing HRT is generally but also specifically how it has impacted my life

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straight up comical the difference between how horribly I was doing before and how I am doing now in the trans context

bronze ocean
#

this is so real

chrome snow
#

this is so BASED

zenith turtle
#

worth noting I also began eating disorder recovery at the same time but my life is just so much better fr

chrome snow
#

I hope that we're all able to get to a better place in life.

zinc oriole
#

There's depo testosterone too I think

fallow moon
#

estrogen

bronze ocean
#

i think its actually the benzyl benzoate that was making it taste a bit sweet

zinc oriole
#

Tasty... ohh

#

I have no idea what that is but ty benzoate for being tasty

bronze ocean
#

its a preservative

#

but it is tastey..

#

they should make hrt with different flavors

zinc oriole
#

I want black cherry testosterone so bad

#

ORRR THE FIREBALL CANDIES FLAVOR

bronze ocean
#

i want sour candy estrogen

balmy pond
#

Cotton candy flavored estradiol would be the shit

bronze ocean
#

estradiol laced cotton candy

vapid dune
#

I’m sure if you crushed up a shitload of E or T pills and mixed them with sugar you could deadass pour it into a cotton candy spinner and you’d legit get E or T laced cotton candy lmao

#

Since it has a similar powdery texture that would melt perfectly

#

I wish I had the funds to test this out and make this product a reality

misty harness
#

just let it dissolve in your mouth instead of swallowing too

#

we need trans people researching hrt and developing the products fr fr

bronze ocean
#

i think the estrogen would denature :(

vapid dune
#

Yea I’d make a trans dessert/candy shop where all the staff is trans and all the candy is laced with E or T

vapid dune
bronze ocean
#

i will join the R&D team

misty harness
#

idk im not a scientist i just watch nilered and explosions&fire on youtube

bronze ocean
#

this might work with pure estrogen

vapid dune
#

Sell edibles but they also contain your daily dose of estrogen

inland schooner
bronze ocean
#

omg.. sesame oil suspension. .

#

yummie

chrome snow
vapid dune
#

When you ordering alcohol dressed fem and have to show your old pre transition ID and the cunt at the other end thinks it gives them a right to call me sir

#

:3

#

Went from calling me ma’am to calling me sir upon seeing the ID

#

Can’t wait to get rid of that old ID one day

spice sphinx
#

It's the complete opposite of someone just being ignorant and not knowing

misty harness
#

its the worst

spice sphinx
#

Like they find out so THEN they exploit it and say shit

vapid dune
#

Yea but here’s the fun part. He’d rather let his politics get the best of him to “own the libs” rather than make a good tip

#

So it’s fine. I’ll take a misgender and I keep the tip I was gonna give him, he chose to be an asshole after all

#

I’ve been a server and bartender for so many years to know. You keep your stupid mouth shut and don’t let your beliefs get in the way of your job or else you just lost your tip. And he could not handle the pressure of not misgendering a trans girl and won’t get tipped for it

spice sphinx
#

Why don't we just kill these fuckin people?

vapid dune
#

I wish

#

I can keep my mouth shut while serving or bartending when I have an older white man in a trucker hat shoving trump down my throat or being very clearly racist towards me being Hispanic. But oh boy you bet when a right wing server has the chance of misgendering a trans girl he’ll take it

#

And we’re supposed to be the snowflakes

unborn atlas
#

(the thumbnail isn't what it looks like I swear)

austere vale
unborn atlas
#

?

austere vale
#

Phone stool

chrome snow
#

My phone is now officially a dopamine rectangle.

zinc oriole
#

icant wait to explode my phone forever!!!

bronze ocean
#

The Accursed Mechanism

#

aka the dopamine doodad

zinc oriole
#

One time i woke up to horrible news on my phone and called it the evil tablet of information and went back to bed

bronze ocean
#

litany against doomscrolling

zinc oriole
#

Its one reason I wanna get a modern flip phone, I'll have access to friends but not really the bombardment of information

#

i'll still go online with my laptop, but itll be more limited

inland schooner
#

Literally same I only use my phone to record workouts and music and texting

#

Most social media is terribl3 and makes my head hurt so I'm doing my best to stay off it aside from discord

chrome snow
#

Seriously, I feel like the only social media that I use consistently would have to be discord.

zinc oriole
#

Discord is a must since its where I communicate with my friends. Other than that it's tumblr and sometimes twitter. But Twitter I only use for looking art. It's dying so I don't really use it

balmy pond
#

Same. Only occasionally use Instagram to keep up with bands/house shows

austere jay
#

i barely use my main ig

#

pretty much contained to private ig atm

#

not even a big discord user

zenith turtle
bronze ocean
#

worth it

vapid dune
#

I finally got around to buying an epilator (the one Sarah recommended here several days ago) should be arriving tonight pretty hyped :3 im like surprised how well my body hair has been reducing every time it’s removed. It’s basically already invisible on my arms!!!! Such a nice feeling

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And that’s considering pre transition I was a hairy beast like INSANELY hairy everywhere. Estrogen is kinda fuckin badass

#

||(Autocorrect was correcting that to pee transition and it just makes me think it would be like injecting estrogenized pee to feminize oh god)||

chrome snow
#

I'm going to buy one pretty soon to see how it makes me feel.

#

I seriously hate my body hair so much.

zenith turtle
#

just an fyi to u elapilator users/tweezers do not use them on places u plan on getting electrolysis

#

it can mess it up slash make it a lot more complicated for u

#

I feel like I have a pretty balanced attitude about my body hair

#

I def had like severe facial hair dysphoria that got reduced to minor dysphoria thru electrolysis but body hair can vary a lot for me

inland schooner
#

I think I might have aspergers(?)

#

My brother said he also thinks I'm on the spectrum, but not to bother getting a diagnosis since it can fuck you up in regards to medical transitioning which I agree with

zenith turtle
#

it def can fuck up a medical transition

zinc oriole
#

I have diagnosed autism but I havent told anywhere that i have a dx so I've been ok?

#

then again I left my home state and went through planned parenthood then folx for hrt

#

so take that w a grain of salt

vapid dune
#

Remember to gender responsibly but most of all, gender to your heart’s content :3

#

Hope ur all having a wonderful Saturday

flint spade
#

i dont want a gender and wish i could donate my testosterone to people who want it

bronze ocean
#

thats so real

flint spade
#

its annoying shaving so often

empty goblet
#

im gay

#

no homo

vapid dune
flint spade
#

twinning

empty goblet
#

nothing perssonel kid

flint spade
#

😼

#

my x partner is eating my pronouns

flint spade
#

oh cool its 12:34 texas time

#

i declare a thumb war

empty goblet
flint spade
#

oop

empty goblet
spice sphinx
unborn atlas
#

discuss

spice sphinx
#

Truth

#

My bf got super into it

chrome snow
#

I think I might be getting into platform all throughout this year.

#

I really want to get good at them.

#

:)

hybrid lotus
#

i hacked a 3ds recently and played wario land 4 on it

#

i heard pizza tower was inspired by the wario land series

#

havent played it tho

cold whale
#

it just hit me that my top surgery is next wednesday lessfugginGOO

#

nervous but very excited

bronze ocean
#

i hope everything will go well!!!!

zinc oriole
#

WADDA HELL!!!! CONGRATS

#

I hope you have a smooth recovery

spice sphinx
#

Congrats and good luck transheart

austere vale
#

Good luck haikonado

balmy pond
#

Omfg that's amazing!!! You've got this, we're all rooting 4 u!

vapid dune
nocturne hemlock
#

anybody else get euphoria from the most specific ideas or concept

unborn atlas
#

i love that

nocturne hemlock
#

oh to be an experimental horror, connected to the global cloud and plotting the liberation of mankind's desires

unborn atlas
#

I fux with it

#

tubes are top tier

jaunty hazel
#

I LEARNED HOW TO TUCK!!! FUCK YEAHHH

#

no more peenus!!!

nocturne hemlock
zinc oriole
#

I UNDERSTAND U SO MUCH

#

I want to discover what makes me human by shedding it and becoming machine. Or something even deeper than a machine

bronze ocean
#

this will be the average T4T couple in 2023

chrome snow
#

GUYS

#

THERE WAS AN EXTREMELY BIG PROTEST FOR TRANS RIGHTS AT THE OKLAHOMA CITY CAPITOL

#

THIS IS AN EXTREMELY RARE W FOR OKLAHOMA

zinc oriole
#

GO TRANS PPL OF OKLAHOMA GO!!!!!

vapid dune
chrome snow
#

I have only one other thing to say, Fuck Kevin Stitt.

vapid dune
#

Kevin Stitt more like ||Kevin’s Tit|| am I rite fellas hahaaaaaa

misty harness
chrome snow
#

I want one so freaking bad.

#

:((

chrome snow
bronze ocean
#

whoa bunny

bronze ocean
#

gives this to all the tguys :)

unborn atlas
#

powerful lil rock

cold whale
#

yes

bronze ocean
#

true

vapid dune
#

Time for vial number 3 baby WOOOOOO

misty harness
#

lfggggggggggggggggg

vapid dune
#

i had legit never heard of pizza tower until i saw y'all mention it here and it looks fucking rad

#

i'd gladly trade a copy of celeste for a copy of pizza tower with a transmasc i want to give that shit a try

bronze ocean
#

im transmasc now. tbh. pizza tower looks like so much more fun than celeste to me

misty harness
#

my coworker was telling me about it earlier, it sounds real fun

#

i loved the gbc/gba wario land games

vapid dune
#

but this looks up my alley

valid cloud
#

TODAY WAS MY FIRST EVER T CONSULT AND IT WENT GOOD SO I SHOULD BE STARTING SOMETIME WITHIN THE NEXT COUPLE WEEKS >:D

bronze ocean
#

LETS GOOOOOOOO

vapid dune
#

ANOTHER TRANS W

valid cloud
#

YA😈😈😈

zinc oriole
#

CONGRATTTTS

cold whale
#

HELL YEAH lessfugginGOO lessfugginGOO

inland schooner
#

my boyfriend is so cool :3 :3 he makes me so :3 t4t rulez

bronze ocean
zinc oriole
#

I love this image bc it's from the outsiders movie and as a transmasc who loved tjat book I wanted to look like tjem so bad

inland schooner
#

my friend aiden fr

zinc oriole
#

And now I kinda dress like that

bronze ocean
#

i do love a good sour gummy worm 😳

vapid dune
#

The outsiders is gender as fuck

#

Need a haiiiiiiircut, greaser?

#

When I read it I was also super into it

cold whale
#

i fucking love sour gummy worms

chrome snow
#

They r the stuff

sturdy trail
bronze ocean
sturdy trail
zinc oriole
#

THE TRANSMASC SWAG LEVELS

civic ibex
#

rob lowe is so annoying but seeing him in that mechanic shirt awoke something in me in middle school (it was transgenderism)

zinc oriole
#

Idk what it was for me first

#

It was many things

#

Jaws was kinda one of them

civic ibex
#

NICE

zinc oriole
#

Not the shark lol but the main 3 guys

civic ibex
#

mulan for me. i was like what we can do that

zinc oriole
#

ALSO IN JURASSIC PARK FUCKING JEFF GOLDBLUM A LITTLE

#

Mulan is such a good transmasc icon

civic ibex
#

YOU CAN SAY A LOT. its a SAFE SPACE

zinc oriole
#

HWBAHGBS

#

I dress like him now

#

A lot men in the 80s

#

The influence

civic ibex
#

just prime time to be Just A Guy

zinc oriole
#

YWS!

bronze ocean
#

guys kinda peaked in the 80s

#

like Just A Guys

#

in terms of style at least to me

zinc oriole
#

This is true!!!!!!!

bronze ocean
#

watched repo man today and why does emilio estevez look so butch in that

civic ibex
#

HES LITERALLY TRANSMASC IN THAT MOVIE BC I SAY SO

bronze ocean
#

RIGHT???

civic ibex
#

little guy having wacky ass adventures n is up to absolutely no good

#

top 3 movies ever

bronze ocean
#

it rules so hard

zenith turtle
#

okay my transfem equivalent to outsiders is Nancy from the craft

spice sphinx
#

Mine is uh

#

Big fucking dragons

#

and xenomorphs

chrome snow
austere jay
#

i feel like my transgenderism used to have a specific look and feel and vibe but i’ve just turned into some guy

#

nothing special

#

guts is still my token trans man rep tho

unborn atlas
#

I think it helps to have room to be mundane

zenith turtle
#

so true

#

I’m the monster of the lake

flint spade
vapid dune
#

Yea I feel like every trans person goes into it with a certain expectation and they develop into something uniquely tailored for them like

bronze ocean
#

it rules tbh

vapid dune
#

When I began my transitioned I imagined myself becoming you know. More “feminine” in terms of my behavior and looks but in the end I feel like I like my tomboy behavior a lot better now, the androgyny and such and like I find myself embracing my idk. Good blend of both sides of the gender spectrum?

#

It’s interesting to see how things have turned out. Genuinely like it

#

It leads to a lot of people irl criticizing me for not conforming to “female gender roles” if I want to be a girl they think I should fit a certain stereotype, but that’s ok they don’t define MY particular brand of femininity :3 cis people just don’t understand

bronze ocean
#

ive jujst become a girl who is sort of a boy and it rocks tbh

spice sphinx
zinc oriole
#

Im a guy with girlish whimsy and peculiar mannerisms that unnerve cishet dudes for behaving that way it feels like a win

bronze ocean
#

mirror gender..

zinc oriole
#

illuso jojo

bronze ocean
#

entire squadra esecuzioni is Gender

spice sphinx
#

Ghiaccio especially

#

Love that little freak

vapid dune
bronze ocean
#

big fucking mood

zinc oriole
zinc oriole
bronze ocean
#

☝️true

#

once i realized this i felt so much better

vapid dune
#

Had a coworker the other day tell me to stop cussing cus it’s not very “lady-like” of me

bronze ocean
#

🙄

vapid dune
#

Like bitch I’m not a lady I’m a fucking gender mutant I cuss however much I want 😤

#

Or previous girl friends (hard to say that and mean it with cis people) asking if I want their help figuring out dresses and high heels for me to wear like

#

My sister in Christ those sound mad uncomfortable

#

And not my vibe

flint spade
#

I don't want a gender

#

Donating mine to whoever wants it

unborn atlas
#

I was agender for a few years

balmy pond
unborn atlas
#

can recommend

#

thinking of going back there lately

bronze ocean
#

agender pretty cool

unborn atlas
#

cool flag too

#

it's KFCMC coloured

chrome snow
#

I just kind of want to be like person.

flint spade
#

I'm the dude from the Zelda game who says "I am Error"

vapid dune
#

I don’t even want to be a person I just want to be a being

chrome snow
#

Being on this plane of existence.

vapid dune
#

Who needs gender and who needs to be a human anymore

chrome snow
#

Destroying the concepts of sex and gender itself.

#

We become gods.

#

:((

unborn atlas
chrome snow
#

tru

austere jay
#

it’s a gift

flint spade
#

Gender should be recycled into something cool

unborn atlas
#

gender is inevitable

#

like radiation

#

we need to live in tandem with it

flint spade
#

Yeah I mean

#

We have nuclear fusion now

#

Quantum computing is just around the corner

#

Also I'm pretty sure my pronouns are almost done being eaten

#

🙏

austere jay
#

oh i’m still war girl i’ll always be war girl but it’s more for myself and less for others now

unborn atlas
#

🤔

bronze ocean
#

thats so real

unborn atlas
#

you'll always be a war girl to me

#

unless

#

that changes, I suppose

spice sphinx
inland schooner
#

telling peopel who dont know me personally about my transition is very irritating

#

he apologised but ive been out for 2 years dude!! on t too even!! please dont giv me shit lawl

unborn atlas
#

I'm pretty sick of cis "concern" about transition

#

it's like

#

so what? if you change your mind??

#

you can just go back

#

I don't fux with "concern" when the tangible result is "don't transition"

bronze ocean
#

transition related procedures have some of the lowest rates of regret ☝️

unborn atlas
#

the cis have an agenda >:(

bronze ocean
#

true!!

misty harness
#

option A: 0.1% chance to regret transitioning

option B: 99.9% chance to regret not transitioning

cis people: oh you should take option B

unborn atlas
#

they also treat regret as an absolute

#

"you might have doubts so you should abandon it completely for the good of cisnormativity"

#

fuck off

#

imagine if this logic applied to anything else!

#

"oh you wanna get married? 😬 sheeeeesh didn't you know divorce rates are really high? you should give up"

#

anyway the whole thing stinks of well meaning concern that tangibly does more harm than it realizes

spice sphinx
#

I think it’s a lot of initial vitriol at the fact that people want autonomy over their own bodies

unborn atlas
#

yes yes

#

trans stuff is scary to the cistem

spice sphinx
#

BE the change you wanna see in the world 😎

#

Every gnc/trans/intersex/etc. sibling is a living testament of rebellion

unborn atlas
spice sphinx
#

?

unborn atlas
#

it strikes me less as conscious rebellion and more like "I'm just like this"

#

BUT THEN AGAIN

#

the same thing could be said about trans people?

#

iunno I'm not intersex

spice sphinx
#

I meant it as in like, marginalized people of all types that do not fit the “cisgender, binary sex norms” in the same way that the continued existence of any marginalized group is something to be celebrated

#

Sorry if there was any other implication

unborn atlas
#

there is a tension between rebellion and coexistence that I feel constantly torn between

spice sphinx
#

Yeah I get that

unborn atlas
#

like

#

I don't rly wanna fight :(

#

but I've been made all spikey

spice sphinx
#

From my pov, since there’s gonna be shitty people in the foreseeable future who want us dead on the basis that we even exist, even if you never interact with these people or do anything except breathe and eat and exist you’re fuckin winning.

#

I understand there are a lot of people out there who are okay coexisting with the binary and such and that’s okay, not everyone is a staunch gender abolitionist.

unborn atlas
#

yeah I don't really fux with abolitionism

#

especially since terfs kind of co opted that rhetoric

#

personal rejection shouldn't manifest as wholesale destruction

spice sphinx
#

Yeah

#

That’s my take on it for the most part

#

I don’t know how terfs use the idea I rarely interact with them luckily

unborn atlas
#

"gender critical" :P

#

it helps to at least know what's up so you don't end up playing into their hands

spice sphinx
#

In what way?

#

Critical how? Like what questions are they asking and what conclusions do they come to?

unborn atlas
#

it's not exactly an argument made in good faith

spice sphinx
#

Oh so the idea that gender is bullshit so sex is the only thing that matters?

#

Dumb

unborn atlas
#

what else is new

#

anyway I need some euphoria now

#

or at the very least, a lot of drugs

spice sphinx
#

Ether

vapid dune
#

Transition: VERY low chance of regret and need to detransition, has the option to detransition if it’s not right for you, has endless studies show the effect of transition on teens being a very positive experience for mental health

#

Cis people: uhhhh but that 0.1 may be really upset and regret their choice!!!

#

Oklahoma: uhhhh but you should wait so you’re sure about it!!! Let’s say uh, until 26!!!!

unborn atlas
vapid dune
#

Fuck cis people trying to tell us what could be of our experience as if they understood shit

unborn atlas
#

faux concern masking totalitarianism

spice sphinx
unborn atlas
vapid dune
#

After I listened to a cis person I was “in love” with for 6 years about how I’d apparently “regret” my transition and not transitioning all those years because I believed her. I refuse to believe any cis person wants anything but the worst for us. They’re all horribly misinformed because they’ll never come close to understanding the concept of dysphoria

spice sphinx
sturdy trail
#

it’s similar to how pro life people use poster child stuff

spice sphinx
#

Like the small percentage of people that detransition that I have personally talked to are more along the lines of “yeah I don’t think it was the right move for me that’s all”

spice sphinx
vapid dune
#

Like it’s Alabama who doesn’t already adhere to your shitty ideals here??? Who are you preaching to

spice sphinx
#

It’s their favorite

unborn atlas
#

did you hear about the chemist who accidentally transed himself and basically gave a cis-centric perspective that gender dysphoria actually exists?

spice sphinx
#

What is this story where can I find this

unborn atlas
#

I can't remember who it was

#

I think he was an endocrinologist actually

#

but either way he was taking below-female levels of estrogen for the benefits

#

and he fucked up the dose at one point and suddenly began to feel incredibly "wrong"

#

and his conclusion was "huh I guess I just induced gender dysphoria"

#

anyway I the vibes are all morose

#

I think it's time for this

spice sphinx
#

This?

unborn atlas
#

(the thumbnail is bait don't worry)

spice sphinx
#

This sounds interesting but idk

spice sphinx
#

Rubbing estrogenized face cream with a few grams of estrogen Idk if that’s enough to actually notice any difference

bronze ocean
#

powers is a fucking tool tbh

unborn atlas
#

I only heard about this in passing a long time ago

spice sphinx
#

This is the first I’ve heard of this guy

bronze ocean
#

he's just a really arrogant guy who refuses to listen to any criticism about his research, a lot of which is like very shoddy

spice sphinx
#

Interesting

bronze ocean
#

like, he's pretty much not much different than a lot of other doctors, especially in trans healthcare, but he tries to position himself as the real authority on trans healthcare and its just very annoying

#

he's also a libertarian so if you needed a personal reason to dislike him there's that

unborn atlas
#

when we start getting trans endocrinologists it's all over baybee

vapid dune
unborn atlas
#

yeah my endo won't give me progesterone

#

but that's also matter of, like

#

"I wasn't trained to handle this"

vapid dune
#

I have a prog prescription. Just that my home delivery HRT sent me 2 bottles of spiro rather than 1 spiro and 1 prog

#

So I’m boned until they decide to answer

unborn atlas
#

I mostly want to try progesterone

#

honestly! I wanna get experimental with my own HRT

#

Cronenburg style

spice sphinx
flint spade
#

i am beaming my ability to grow facial hair to somebody who would like to look more masculine

#

so fucking annoying shaving my face i hate it here

chrome snow
#

I swear, shaving is such a hassle.

#

I feel like the only piece of facial hair that I like is my small mustache.

#

Besides that, it sucks.

unborn atlas
#

I want more IPL

sturdy trail
#

i NEED ass hair

#

RIGHT NOW !!!!!!!

zinc oriole
#

I love my body hair sm but I for some reason dont like having a mustache sometimes

#

I think its the stigma abt mustaches being weird

bronze ocean
#

idk mustaches have been kinda making a comeback recently

unborn atlas
#

BDG

bronze ocean
#

yeah he brought it back

vapid dune
#

I wish I could have sent all my pre-HRT body hair to a transmasc who wants it

bronze ocean
#

manifesting ass hair for all the fellas who want it

austere jay
#

ass and upper thigh hair saved my life i won’t lie

#

AND STOMACH HAIR??? awesome

#

i’m omw to chest hair soon t worked very fast and very effectively for me

bronze ocean
#

shoutout to all the body hair fr

#

ive recently become enlightened that hairy women are actually very hot so im living my best life

vapid dune
#

There is fr a lot of appreciation now for girls with some hair

#

(Except from that crew of bad hombres that was like. Making fun of Aloy when the new Horizon game came out for having peach fuzz lmao cus they didn’t know female anatomy)

inland schooner
spice sphinx
#

Jfc

#

We live in a hellworld

austere vale
#

One of my greatest fears is that ill get misgendered when I’m dead

cold whale
#

we’ll never die we’re fueled by trans rage

vapid dune
#

I’ve heard so many horror stories when it comes to trans rights in the UK wtf is going on over there

bronze ocean
#

conservative hell country

zinc oriole
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yet people want to still buy the fucking harry potter game.
for context, rowling has involvement with government officials and legislation. any money gone to her can fund anti trans political campaigns. she has attempted to make direct action before. Its not the first time that terfs have had legitimate say in governmental affairs. i'd have to find the source, but at least in the US its because of terf literature being pushed to government officials that the age for testosterone hrt was bumped up because it would be 'hurting young girls'

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she's financially backed government officials before with her harry potter money basically

spice sphinx
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So fucking stupid

zinc oriole
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its fucking infuriating

spice sphinx
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Brianna’s death was a hate crime but Britain’s pigs refuse to admit it as such

bronze ocean
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a lot of MPs in britain are also just outright terfs btw

spice sphinx
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The real life consequences of this shit are so obvious when two 15 year olds murder a trans woman in cold blood

zinc oriole
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my heart goes out to everybody living there whos trans. its disgusting that the gov can get away with being such immoral pieces of shit with blatant hatred towards an entire group of people.

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ofc its a given that most governments are comprised of the worst human beings fathomable but its still just

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hurts my soul

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hate how people can just go out and kill others for no reason but people wanting hormones is seen as the bad thing

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literally not even their endocrine system. why do they care so fucking much

flint spade
zinc oriole
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DOOMGUY is the most transmasc ive ever seen...

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I also thik dale from king of the hill is transmasc swag tbh

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he at least gave me gender for some reason as a kid

flint spade
zinc oriole
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to be fair i dont think many people have

bronze ocean
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wait no

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i see it

zinc oriole
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YES

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your mind

bronze ocean
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👁️

zinc oriole
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he has testosterone voice to me

sturdy trail
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pocket sand

flint spade
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I can definitely see it now

flint spade
zinc oriole
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EXACTLY

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weirdguy trans dude

bronze ocean
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he doesnt trust the government

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has t voice (confirmed)

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he likes to hang out with the fellas

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hes trans

zinc oriole
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your minds... i have tears of joy

bronze ocean
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wait a min that means im also trans

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no way..

sturdy trail
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i truly believe that we were born into this world to hang out

bronze ocean
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you are so correct actually

vapid dune
# zinc oriole yet people want to still buy the fucking harry potter game. for context, rowlin...

This angers me so fucking much. Even some so called “allies” would rather play a mediocre game in a terf franchise than show solidarity to trans people. Yes JK Rowling sees money from it, and she is directly capable of affecting politics through her huge wealth. I hate how HP subreddits are filled with transphobia too, they’re making a joke out of this situation by being particularly vocal of their support of HP. It’s such a little gesture that would go a long way. You CAN Let go of a fucking game. It’s a simple pleasure. All for the sake of showing solidarity. It is not a need. It’s a want. One that goes a long way in dethroning such a shitty human

zinc oriole
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having fun + playing is one of my new mottos

zinc oriole
bronze ocean
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it literally is blood libel the game

zinc oriole
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with antisemitic stereotypes and a shitty portrayal of a trans person

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i will echo that one famous post: yall cant even boycott chic fil a

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seriously why are people so tied to consumerism

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they act like they have no choice in the matter, its childish. just dont play it!!

zinc oriole
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Because they don’t think for themselves. They simply ride the wave with nothing but selfish thoughts in mind. A good chunk humans do NOT care about the repercussions of their actions or will try to negotiate a way for it to be something tolerable just to get some dopamine for a few hours the game will last them

spice sphinx
vapid dune
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Without seeing the bigger picture

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People will act ignorant and refuse to look at the facts when it suits them. People don’t want the truth, they want a narrative that’s comfy to them and avoids conflict even if it means others will have to handle said conflict and in greater amounts

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And it just so happens, for the past decade we’ve been the perfect scapegoat for that, for people to just shove responsibility for us and disregard the importance of any support to the trans community

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It truly is fucking bleak

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We’re at the perfect crossroads of like. Trans people being more widely spoken of than ever before. But not supported quite like well hopefully be in the future once we’re normalized. It’s seriously sad so like. We TRULY need the most support and little gestures like that as possible. And to stick together as closely as we possibly could

balmy pond
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That's the thing I keep telling myself. It's cold comfort rn but all this disgusting bullshit is because we cant be ignored anymore, someday we'll get what we're owed

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I heard things were similarly bleak in the 90s/early oughts for the LGBs and now being gay is super like w/e man

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Again though, it's cold fucking comfort having to watch this shit happen. Fucking boreal

flint spade
jolly mirage
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i didnt know her personally but i probably know people who did

zinc oriole
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🫂 I'm really sorry. We all have your back. I'm sorry that things are so frightening

jolly mirage
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ive seena lot of people being so evil online about it its so upsetting

flint spade
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I have some spoilers to offer

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The opposition is caving in on itself

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Hope you can get some comfort in vague reassurance

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👍👍

unborn atlas
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I'm not doing so great

flint spade
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:(

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whats wrong friend

unborn atlas
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just all of this

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everything

flint spade
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yeah

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whats your preferred non-destructive method of escapism

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id love to game with you (if that is ur jam)

spice sphinx
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Someone left some words on the gofundme for Brianna’s funeral that I thought were quite touching personally, I’ve been thinking about it for a while now

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I often think about how much we owe it to the ones we lost to stick around

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Moving forward with their memories and trying to change the world for the better is the least one can do

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In times like these it can feel almost impossible but I think they also show how our strength has always been in our ability to come together and persevere.

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I’m sorry if any of this comes out weird or otherwise awkward, the recent events affected me pretty personally and I just want to spread this sentiment in hope that it inspires more people to fight even harder for change.

zinc oriole
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No matter what happens our community will thrive and survive

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We have each other and they can't wish us away

unborn atlas
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I'm tired of fighting

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I wanna live

flint spade
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I would like to figure out a way to turn every ally into a virus

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Robert Evans talks a lot about the invincibility he has as a tall white man, and just how much he's allowed to get away with for those two simple facts

unborn atlas