Does it ever hit you you’re sitting here

[merry trail]

@bleak radish I just would like to add here that you should make time for both. I'm on the introvert side of spectrum where I don't need that much social interaction to be happy but if you are not like that it can be really hard for you to not get that and feel fulfilled with your life right I would say that try to do both and if you have a good discipline and you do both of these things in balance you should be okay

A lot of people just want to enjoy life and get good things, but they don't put in the work.

If you want to do something hard, think about if you want to leave a legacy in this world.

Most people just enjoy time with friends and do what average people do. They have fun, but no one will remember them later.

The people who work hard for humanity or in their field are the ones remembered for a long, long time.

It's a trade-off.

You might think, "Why care what people think of me when I die?"

But it's a good way to think if you want to contribute to something bigger, or leave a legacy for your family, friends, and others you care about.

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I see a lot of shallow interactions these days, online and offline.

People think they're friends, but they're not. They don't know each other well.

They just don't want to be alone.

These interactions might give you short-term hope and happiness.

But I think you should aim for long-term relationships where someone truly cares about you, and you care about them.

This could be a friendship, a spouse, or any long-term relationship.

Even if you don't spend a lot of time with someone, the interactions you have can be enough to keep you going.

They are meaningful interactions.

It's not about how much time you spend just enjoying the world.

It's about who you are with, and how you see that as quality time.

That's much more important.