#Going thru a hard time figuring out

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languid tartan
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kirbySadge I have no words to say, what a very tough deicsion to make. I hope for the best in whatever decision you make

proud sluice
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Shit like that is what I stress about having to deal with in the near future, but I've no gf rn so I'm good for now

U got dis big guy

lean haven
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I would make the decision that would grant you the most peace of mind, there are definitely multiple chapters in your life and maybe this one is coming to an end... I'm in a relationship where I feel like she's the one I'm going to marry and things have been going well, but discussions about moving away for career purposes allowed us to think about that as a possible future together . I would definitely suggest having an open dialogue with her to voice your thoughts and feelings all that gushy shit and see what she thinks 🤷‍♂️ i think it's best to just be open and transparent

proper plover
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I agree @lean haven . We did have very honest and open conversations this week about it. Unfortunately, she wants to travel + stay in NY + move to LA in the near future. She is privileged enough to do these things, graduating with lots of savings. I recently graduated with debt, and I gotta take care of a lot back home. So it’s either I pay off my loans, I help my family with a down payment, or save money for myself. If I stay in HCOL cities, I can only do one of those things at a time. If I move home, I can do all of them.

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So we’ve agreed to end on good terms. I’m just bummed that this couldn’t work out.

lean haven
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head up king I think you made the right decision even tho it's tuff