I'm tired of the way people treat me and see me and I'm literally losing everything because of 1 person
#need help
pure wave
quick knoll
Hi
Here is diwa. I am here for you.
pure wave
ima just spit all of everything out
so
im literally losing all of my friends and basically all of my social interactions
and the way people actually think about me
its just bad
and i didnt even do anything
and my sister
she somehow stole all of my friends
and specifically my best friend
and
we keep getting more people in "our" friend group
and im slowly getting pushed away from them
slowly
eventually
they wont even remember
and i will turn back into the guy with no friends again
and i dont want to have no friends again
i cant even do anything these days
without
having to have my sister involved
and when she pulls up
im just straight up forgotten until i actually do something to help them remember im here
quick knoll
It's bad to hear it.
See, making friends, happens naturally, you have to be yourself.
If anyone likes you , then they don't go away.
Making friends only needs to open to others More.
It will casually happen.
You need to talk to them with an open mind .
pure wave
when i actually do normal stuff that i do
most people in my friends group and people that arnt in it
all they do is try to shut me up or just do something to make me stop being me
let alone
people also have spread bad rumours that has ruined my reputation as just a person
and then it just made people ignore me more
quick knoll
If your personality doesn't match with them and anyone stops you for being yourself then that is their problem.
See if anyone is falsely spreading rumours then they will get exposed eventually,
You don't need to Stop being yourself and be social.
To make anyone like you , it's important to be friendly and listen to them , act accordingly that they like, but never change yourself, if you don't do anything bad to anyone.
pure wave
they were never caught lying
they all belived them
no matter how hard i tried to say they wernt true
just never worked
let alone
no one that arnt my "friends" dont even want to be near me
being ME
in front of people who are not my friends that are forgetting me
just think im
weird
or
stupid
or
some worthless peice of crap
quick knoll
Today world
Some praise, good behaviour, being social, that is all needed to make friends.
Sometimes to expose lies, we need time , we have to wait until exposed without any self doubt.
One thing always remember, every one unique in this world.
Every one have his own personalities.
You don't need to change for anyone unless you want something yourself to change.
They told you that you are not good ?
pure wave
i have been told directly a good amount of times
and ive heard too much bad stuff about me from behind my back
i dont even know what i did
i dont think i did anything to anyone
ive literally had many people chant and yell that i should just leave and dont come back
quick knoll
I am talking to you. I can easily be your friend.
If anyone tells you a bad thing about you, then it means they are bad.
If anyone talks you behind your back. It means they are no Good.
pure wave
basically everyone i know but like
3 people
isnt it crazy
how people just
be
absolute
||assholes ||
to people
for no reason
quick knoll
Tell me about yourself,
Now we are talking, I will Help you and be your friend.
If you tell me about yourself then it will be easier to help.
Bad people do bad things. But you have to know they are Envious of you, so they do bad things, otherwise who in The right mind tells or does bad things to others without any reason.
pure wave
i
am me
i
im very much into cars
like gaming
like band
uhh
i like to be insane at some times
quick knoll
That is good things, gaming, cars, band.
quick knoll
It happens, when something forbidden always makes us curious.
But you know, people who tell about ourselves are not important, what we think about ourselves is important.
pure wave
what I thank about myself?
probaly
a person
that persons
and
has almost no friends
and lonely
most of the time
quick knoll
How is your relation with them ?
pure wave
uhh
my parents r just normal
my brother
good ig
we do a bunch of stupid stuff togethe
r
my small sister
eh
but my older sister who im still older than
she ruined my life
let alone
one of my friends moved
and 1 of them almost died from cancer
which isnt very nice
quick knoll
Means
In five people only older sister behaviour is bad.
Others behaviour is good .
It means their is no problem with you.
But you need to keep good behaviour with your older sister also in front of everyone.
You will see after sometimes.
Who is bad , it will be exposed eventually. But if you do bad with your older sister due to her bad behaviour, then you are playing her game.