#A NSFW topic

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wide cove
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||At a very young age I was exposed to pornographic content on YouTube, I have been extremely addicted to nsfw content and I need to stop. I don't know how and I need advice /help

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oblique sequoia
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Ello

wide cove
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Hi

oblique sequoia
# wide cove Hi

What abt the addiction do you specifically need advice on?

wide cove
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How to stop

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I keep spending my allowance and stuff and I genuinely feel sick to my stomach

oblique sequoia
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Well did you expose yourself to it like how did you stumble upon corn?

wide cove
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I was like 5 - 6 on YouTube and I saw the word and got curious because I didn't know what it ment

oblique sequoia
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How does it affect ur life on the daily?

wide cove
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If I have money I'll try and spend it on corn, I do it multiple times every day

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And I wonder what my friends would think about me

oblique sequoia
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So it effects ur self esteem around peers?

wide cove
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Yes

oblique sequoia
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Do you know why you do it? Or is it just a physical urge?

wide cove
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I don't know why but I just get urges

oblique sequoia
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One thing you can do is when you feel the urge, is splash cold water on ur face to get out of that, you can try breathing techniques and distracting yourself w like a 15minute activity

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and if you can do this, try and space out the time you watch it.

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like try watch it one day, then dont for however long you can, then extend that time

wide cove
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That might work

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I think the longest I've gone is like 2 - 3 weeks

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Which isn't alot

oblique sequoia
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is there specific hobbies you like doing?

wide cove
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I like gaming, singing, and watching anime / reading manga

oblique sequoia
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what kind of uhh genre game do you like?

wide cove
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Fighting and rhythm games

oblique sequoia
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try the dead as disco demo on steam

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its a fighting rhythm game in development

wide cove
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Oh dang

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That genuinely sounds fun

oblique sequoia
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you can upload ur own music aswell lmao, just make sure you get the bpm correctly

wide cove
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That kinda reminds me of rynthia

oblique sequoia
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have you tried osu?

wide cove
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Yeah is like to play mania a bit

oblique sequoia
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cool

wide cove
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I appreciate talking, this lowk helped me feel more like a person than a blob of trash

oblique sequoia
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np mate, i have the same addiction lmao

wide cove
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May we lessen it out addiction's 🥹

oblique sequoia
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hopefully

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it does affect daily life sadly

wide cove
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Yea

oblique sequoia
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luckily im aroace lmao

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anyways nice talkin to ya

limber marsh
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Hi!!! I know I’m late, never feel ashamed of your addiction, it happens to the best of us and honestly? I think you wanting to get rid of it is a good step.

young mica
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like any beast that there is

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if you cannot fight it

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you starve it out

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you see the beast gnaw at you

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and choose not to fight

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but let it starve

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its claws will hurt the entire ordeal

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but it will eventually starve

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and you will have one less beast fed

limber marsh
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Hii!! Okay. try to find your reactors/triggers then instead of that dopamine hit of ur bad habit find healthier habits!! But first what are your triggers?

autumn night
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I'm also addicted to it and I'm trying to quit

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But the thing is I try to quit but the urge pulls me back

wide cove
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thank you guys for your advice

umbral star
sick turret
tame heron
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Hi @wide cove I’m glad you’re asking for help I hope it’s helping you a bit! Please do remember to censor this topic and certain words for others. You do that by putting || before and after the message you want to censor. Like this! 04_green_frog_heart

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tall edge
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Honestly imo corn is easy to get rid of ik it’s probably gonna be embarrassing but geting people to block the website for you would do you wonders and you wouldn’t be able to access corn webs and when you get urges try to channel it instead to plucking one out yk what I mean

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Also if ur a minor

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Please talk to ur mum and dad about it

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Ik it’s gonna be really embarrassing

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But they are gonna help

oblique sequoia
proven shard
granite sedge
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I would say to spend more time with other people

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When you have urges just surround yourself with people

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Don’t put yourself into a position where it’s easy to give in