help me out

[bronze ledge]

I hate being short so much it affects me insanely it never stops crossing my mind that most of my friends are taller than me I can’t handle it every single day I think about it and it won’t stop I need help

[next hinge]

its okay to be short. height doesn't really matter much, it doesn't make you who you are and stuff, and its something beautiful really. alot of people wish they were short too. but its really something that makes you beautiful the way you are, and your still growing! even if it doesn't feel like it, even after puberty, you can still grow slowly, i hope you know that how tall you are isnt something to be ashamed of. Its really okay!🫂

(im not really good at like.. helping others like that but being short is something i relate to.)

[bronze ledge]

but I can’t stop thinking about it all my friends are like 6,3 and i’m stuck being 5,10 and I hate it so much it’s like just 2 more inches is all I need and i’m not their and it makes me so sad and depressed

no matter what people say I can’t stop thinking about it

[next hinge]

but its okay if theyre tall, i think there are shoes that could make you more taller if thats something but really i promise its not something that is bad

in my opinion i think it makes you stand out in a good way if it makes you any better:'>

[bronze ledge]

okay thanks

[next hinge]

ofcourse! and please dont make it bother you i promise.. im 4'9 and i think being short is something beautiful of life:'>

[rugged wyvern]

Im 4’11 and start college soon, im the smallest in my year you’re not alone! There’s many of us out there so dont think you’re alone!

[urban shell]

Don’t worry just because someone short does not mean your worst or bad. I believe you will get taller so don’t worry you’re still growing. 😁 don’t worry I got your back

[summer lark]

I dont know if you're a girl or a guy but keep in mind you are perfect just the way you are , keep being yourself, keep pushing yourself to the limits, you are beautiful and you can be much more. Tall or short you can still breathe you can still walk you can still get up in the morning and see the world.

[bronze ledge]

i’m 18 almost 19 I don’t know man I would just be so happy if I was just 2 inches taller

[bronze ledge]

i’m a guy but it’s really so depressing seeing my friends taller than me and they joke that i’m shorter at it makes me so sad

[summer lark]

So what man haha im a guy too and im tall and sometimes people make jokes about me 😂 like brother its okay to be short and to be tall

[bronze ledge]

I just can’t forget about it

[urban shell]

Idk what my height but I don’t care what other think because I’m proud also I don’t get hit my branch 😀

[bronze ledge]

it’s just so annoying how I can’t just get 2 more inches of height I hate it so much

[urban shell]

If your younger then like 20 -25 then you didn’t fully develop so you can still grow

[bronze ledge]

alright thanks

[bronze ledge]

I don’t know man the entire day I have just been thinking about how short I am I hate it so much

[cosmic stream]

Nothing would change suddenly if you were taller

[unborn jolt]

where u from?

very tall friends u have

[summer lark]

Don't worry you gonna forget it and be happy

[hidden rapids]

Believe me brother, I actually prefer to be short because if I become tall times would be complex

[tepid mulch]

I feel u royalty of unspecified gender (as I refuse to assume) ima 4’10” senior in highschool 🥲

[rugged wyvern]

Ayy we’re in the same boat

[bronze ledge]

America

[bronze ledge]

why wouldn’t it I would feel at the top of the world at 6 ft tall

but my stupid body had to be 5,10

[bronze ledge]

I know but I want to feel respected and stuff around my friends and get all the girls

[cosmic stream]

haha i do not feel the top of my world,I still have my own goals to achieve

and quality girls don't come pouring down or something

[bronze ledge]

how they always want a taller guy like 6 ft

[bronze ledge]

6 ft is like lottery

[cosmic stream]

that's just in the internet literally

generally if you are 5'9 or above you are already tall enough

[bronze ledge]

but my friends all call me short and joke and I hate it

[cosmic stream]

then you know what's the problem

[bronze ledge]

than I see on tiktok if your under 6 fr your a manlet and don’t even try your a dwarf

and then I believe it

[cosmic stream]

lol tiktok isn't your real life

it feeds you what you believe obviously

[bronze ledge]

it’s easy for you to say since your 6 ft or above

[cosmic stream]

A defeatist mindset will always keep you back in life

[bronze ledge]

I just feel like a lesser person because of it

[bronze ledge]

how do I change this mindset

[cosmic stream]

improve things you can improve like your body,wealth and of course your self esteem

i know plenty of 6 ft guys who are single and can't get a gf no matter what they did

if you think you are a loser and do nothing to improve you will in fact become one

[bronze ledge]

I feel like i’m super fat and lazy and instead of controlling what I can I lock on to something I can’t like height

and it’s a big issue for me

[bronze ledge]

it’s hard to focus on my body and health everytime I try to do it It just hits me i’m short or something

[cosmic stream]

Exactly then start now it is your choice if you want to stay the way you are or change

[bronze ledge]

and I just can’t handle it

[bronze ledge]

thank you I will

[digital badger]

its okay, all my male cousins and my brothers are well over 6 feet, my friends are way taller than me and im one of the smallest in my grade. i try to stay positive even though i was bullied for 2 years because of my height. i'm starting to hit my growth spurt so my goal is that i can at least get 5'11. im 14 as of right now and roughly 5'3

[digital badger]

i'm a male too. i've always been joked around by my peers because theyre like 5'7 or 6'0+.