(English isnt my main language so sorry for any mistakes)
Well this might seem stupid but ever since i befriended my current friends it just didnt seem like they wanted me to be there. I didn’t notice it until a few years ago. I didnt think much of it because i also started prefering some friends over others but even the people that i like the most are starting to not be around me. At school im mostly alone but thats not a problem. Its just that on the weekends im only inside. Its getting boring and idk how to fix it if that makes sense. I appreciate any help
#How do i get to feel included by my friends
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hi Aeolus! I'm new here and English isn't also my main languange. Also, I'm hoping that the advice I'm going to responding will help you ;))
I also feel the same thing like the way you're feeling right now.
Um hey try asking them and don't be scared asking them the reason why they're not always around you anymore because they won't even judge you but, if they do, please don't feel sad because if you're goal is to know the truth why they're avoiding you, not hanging out with you or whatever you want to know. Please take the risk by asking them why and don't be scared taking the risk because what if one day that the risk you did will change your life—on the other hand, that change is gonna be either positive or negative. If it's some positive change then um good for you ! ;)) yet, if it ends with negative change, don't think you failed—you deserve someone better and don't convince yourself that they're still momentous in your life then, you'll run back to them although the pain that they gave you since from the beginning already shattered you.
Don't forget to ask them why, okay? And also maybe the reason they're not around you anymore doesn't mean they hate you. It's either they're busy or just not okay hanging around with everyone. But, if they are with someone else while you're not with them, maybe it's just because they're used being with them or idk ;))
But, hey don't be afraid or feel nervous, okay? It's better to know the truth, than staying in the situation where it could destroy you.
Hope this advice helps!