Which is wierd because I don’t look like it;
You know society is based around stereotypes: there’s popular, nerd, geek, to stay as basic as possible (and kinda corny) but all that to say I feel like a loser although I look the opposite. Looks never were an issue, I used to be fat then lost the weight gains height and muscle now sitting around 6’2 200bs 18%bf which is above average. Knowing that I usually look pretty confident and have no trouble expressing myself or making myself heard but I still can’t make friends. I used to be in a relationship with a girl and when we broke up I realised I only spoke to her. I KNOW a lot of people and a lot of people WHO IDK , KNOW ME however I never got an actual friend that will be first to text, approach, propose to hang out, make plans, yk what friends do. I always had to stuff first and always will have to. Im so so so tired of this and I can’t do anything about it. I feel like im cursed too because im theory is because I LOOK confident i look ‘exclusive’ like i know my shit and have a surrounding. I don’t know what to do considering moving countries after high school.
#I have no friends
obsidian pond
I literally can’t do this anymore
Every interaction feels so
Superficial
I was bouta eat ngl im not even hungry no more
snow pulsar
Go to places where there are more people like you
obsidian pond
Where I am there’s nothing to do
Actually
I’m unable to make friends for some fucking reason
My throat is getting tighter and tighter
true lark
Is there any clubs or any sort of community you can try to join? Maybe you might be able to find friends in a work related setting. Regardless dont give up! Your life is valuable. There must be some reason to keep going, no matter how bad it gets.
brittle tide
I’m unable to make friends for some fucking reason
u r litterally relating to me so much
i advise going to a club
obsidian pond
Sure , alone?
true lark
Well if that’s one of your only options, it’s worth a try
whole flicker