#M20. (OSUT is army training 22 weeks long for infantry soldiers)

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Hey, I need some advice I've gotten into a predicament and need a sensible opinion.

All throughout OSUT I thought about Chloe (my ex) quite often. So much that all my boys from my platoon know who she is. I told them that as soon as I got outta OSUT I was going to try to fix things. I texted her after I graduated and just said "hey". Well last month or I started dating this girl named Kelsie, Madi's old coworker. And the day I asked her to be my gf Chloe called me. And we talked for hours for like the next 3 days until I finally told her I couldn't do this to Kelsie and I told her I couldn't talk to her anymore. (Huge damn regret.)I didn't mean to start dating her tbh it just happened. She's super nice and my family likes her and her family likes me. I see her every weekend and spend pretty much the entire weekend with her. And we've really really rushed into things. Like bad asf and I should have stopped it sooner but I didn’t and I want to end it. Not only because I feel rushed and I don't want to hurt her when I go to Korea (for a 9 month rotation) but it's also because I think about Chloe every day. I miss her a lot but I also don't want to hurt Kelsie. What do I do.

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