Watch me get a girl live? Slide advice il upd Mt situation as it goes on

[brisk fjord]

I got interested in a girl and I tried my best to introduce myself and stuff just bein me and stuff I'm still talking to her but it dosnt feel like it's goin anywhere plus it's still super early and stuff

I made her blush and look back at me twice by jus doin nothin aswell couple days ago

[acoustic umbra]

Honestly if you think it's going nowhere then why even bother? There is plenty of fish in the sea.

[brisk fjord]

Cuz it's hard for someone to make me feel this way there's no point trying to find another person who can do the same

Also upd for today
I didn't speak to her cuz I was busy but she kept lookin my way and we keep going in the same direction and stuff
I've noticed she's making it easier for me to come find and approach her to talk and stuff

[cold sail]

I think she is crushing on you

That’s just me tho

[wintry granite]

same

she lowkey might be

[cold sail]

I say go for it

[brisk fjord]

Idk I can't read her properly

When we talk I ask her questions and she answers
I asked abt shows and she said she only watches the trendy ones and she mentioned stranger things it was pretty vague

Ima talk to her tmrw il update this abt it
(Well il try to talk to her tmrw it's pretty nerve racking🥀)

[brisk fjord]

Spoke to her made her smile n blush

But she left the convo half way through while i was speaking
She said it in a way where it was very quiet but u could still hear. I jus think she was shy and plus classes n stuff

[brisk fjord]

My friend keeps saying that but idk

[cold sail]

Just do it

My friend waited too long once and she lost feelings for him

[brisk fjord]

Idkk

I mean I could but I'm getting mixed signals

And I wouldn't know how to ask her out or how to even ask for her number

I don't even know much bout her to despite me asking her what she likes anyways

I would need the right place and time to even ask her out

[thorny patio]

You’re just physically attracted to her

Don’t rush it

[brisk fjord]

I was at the start but when I started talking to her I just enjoy it a ton I could probably ramble onto her for hours and not notice if she's blushing or if the moment awkward n stuff

[thorny patio]

If y’all talk a lot then it will give it’s time and place to ask her to hangout

Just keep the flow going

[brisk fjord]

We don't talk a lot
It's usually me goin to where she somtimes chills to talk to her
I go to her to talk to her uninvited it dosnt feel right but again it's My 1st time ever doin somthin like this so that's prob it

I don't wanna talk to much where I seem desperate but I wanna talk enough to be friends or someone she knows atleast

[thorny patio]

You said you could ramble onto for hours . So y’all talk for hours ?

Isn’t that a good sign

[brisk fjord]

I don't it was metaphorically

[thorny patio]

Well then I’m gonna say that she isn’t that interested in you

[brisk fjord]

Damm

But she seems so happy when I talk to her tho

And she gets all smiley

[thorny patio]

Yeah she does that to everyone probably

[brisk fjord]

Damm

That's like super dissapointin

Il still speak to her anyways see if I get any signs

[brisk fjord]

But when I talk she blushes n stuff

But that might jus be cuz guys don't speak to her I rlly don't know

[thorny patio]

That doesn’t mean anything tho

[brisk fjord]

How?

[thorny patio]

No not really because if you learn then you can move one faster and actually find the one

[thorny patio]

Because that doesn’t mean she likes you or anything

[brisk fjord]

Learn what?

Idk man I'm like super dumb when it comes to these sorta things

[thorny patio]

Learn how to see if someone clicks and is compatible for long term or not and doesn’t have any red flags or behaviors that will ruin it all

Statistically you’ll have to meet a bit more people

[brisk fjord]

I mean she's shy and reserved but each time we talk she opens up more and more

[thorny patio]

I mean keep talking to her but don’t draw conclusions is what I mean

[brisk fjord]

That's what I'm doin but I overthink

[thorny patio]

Nah just look if she is distant or not but if she talks just fine don’t overdo it

[brisk fjord]

I mean it is my 1st time doin somthin like this so I guess it's normal

[thorny patio]

There isn’t anything else you should change

[brisk fjord]

Wdym distant?

Like if she talks less?

Or opens up less?

[thorny patio]

If someone doesn’t want to talk to you , you will see it

[brisk fjord]

Fair

[thorny patio]

When they talk to you they will have a tone and etc

[brisk fjord]

Yea

Dam I didn't know it was this deep

Well ima jus keep talking to her maybe once or twice a week till she opens up more

If she dosnt then I guess il jus needa scrap the whole thing

[thorny patio]

Yeah and if you do have preferences try to find out things abt her

[brisk fjord]

I have found stuff abt her

Like her hobbies n stuff that's what we usually talk abt

She once tried to get me into one of her hobbies

[thorny patio]

Hmm you could ask if she is down to practice

Depends if you want to shoot your shot

[brisk fjord]

I'm not practicing swimming with her😭

I'm not ready for that

[thorny patio]

Nah swimming is underrated

Go for that Shi

[brisk fjord]

I wanna shoot my shot before summer holidays idk tho cuz I could always wait for the summer glow up and try then

[thorny patio]

If she is down for that you def have a chance

[brisk fjord]

Idkkk

[thorny patio]

Depends if you want to wait or do it now it’s possible to do it now

[brisk fjord]

I would much rather wait till we like chill more then we do now if that makes sense

[thorny patio]

Yeah that’s better

[brisk fjord]

I mean my wingman said he thinks it will work out

But that was a awhile ago idk if he would say the same thing noe

Now.

Anyways il jus log me and her convos here cuz my memory is horrid and I could also get advice

Ty

[thorny patio]

Wdym log me and her convos here

[brisk fjord]

Like if the convo went good or not

Or if I think she is more distant or more opened up in the convo and whatnot

[thorny patio]

Ah yea

[brisk fjord]

Ima try talk to her tmrw
Haven't spoken to her in like a good week
But ima try do it infront of one of her best mates and jus dip
I've done that before

[brisk fjord]

We spoke today
I realised whenever we speak she's 100% locked in on me she don't care abt her best friend or phone and she jus keeps talking(till she talks to much and she don't know what to say so I gotta change subject for her to talk more)
And she's way to good at eye contact

[brisk fjord]

I highkey had to dip early tho cuz I had to be somewhere and I think a friend was watchin

Seems like it's all going good

[ocean turret]

W

[zenith drift]

It seems like she’s interested into what you’re saying. And I’m gonna bring this up, I was like this exactly to my now boyfriend. I got smiley and loved talking to him. I say go for it!!

[brisk fjord]

Idkkk

The biggest thing I don't like is that she dosnt come up to me and speak to me
Like I see her glancing at me
But I jus don't like how she dosnt come up to me man idkk

Plus we only speak like once maybe twice a week beacuse I try to only talk to her when she's free

Like I don't actively go lookin for her whenever she's around and she's not speaking with someone I talk to her for a bit

I'm gon try shoot my shot before the summer holidays and hope I don't end up on someone's story😭

(I still dunno what I mean by shoot my shot idk if Il try get her number or try confess or som idk slide suggestions but jus know u won't see any crazy confessions for couple weeks)