snow compass
anybody have any useful advice on dealing with this? i cant keep letting other peoples behaviour be in complete control of my emotions anymore, feels like a storm i cant control.
ive been struggling with this for a while and it feels like only time can detach me from a person, but its unpredictable and i really want a permanent solution, i never wsnt to get overly attached to someone again
snow compass
im a pretty lonely person but when i try to make friends and this happens it makes me feel even worse than lonely
west aspen
Same my friends are rude to me
sudden matrix
anybody have any useful advice on dealing with this? i cant keep letting other p...
Yes by being alone
Just build your own personality or whatever and if people don't fuck with it then it's too bad.
warped sorrel
Attachment styles are developed in childhood usually from parents being abusive or them neglecting their children. I think its not bad to have anxious attachment as long as you find a partner with normal attachment style or anxious attachment aswell
snow compass
Attachment styles are developed in childhood usually from parents being abusive ...
do u have any tips on how to change attachment style?
i dont wanna stay like this its exhausting
warped sorrel
do u have any tips on how to change attachment style?
Dont expect things from people take control of your own life
If someone doesn’t give you attention fuck them who cares
Thats my mindset but im sure a therapist will have more ways to deal with it
snow compass
i wish i had such a mindset but its not that simple for me
wild solstice
do u have any tips on how to change attachment style?
It's only ever going to change if your environment becomes healthy. If not, then it's hard to change your ways forcing you to cope with it. I honestly can't ignore these but just kept quiet about it.