Dating advice

[hushed sage]

So I’m dating this girl and we’ve known each other for about 12 years or so. Just started dating. We’re great together but if it wasn’t obvious by my pfp I’m a furry. She’s not. I’ve always had this thing where I’d wanted to date someone who is also a furry, I’ve had this dream of how I wanted things to go in my relationships. Had this vision that my significant other would be like me, share the same interests. But the person I’m with is kind of the polar opposite. She want two boyfriends. Which is fine. But I mentioned I’ve always wanted two girlfriends and she’s said that she doesn’t want that. And now I’m questioning if this will work out cause I’m getting the feeling that we are just too different. But at the same time I don’t want to hurt her. I feel like I’m being torn between sacrificing my dreams to make her happy so she can live out hers. I’m feeling lost and need some input.

[tall whale]

You put yourself first not her .

[hushed sage]

How can I do that and still maintain at least a friendship with her?