#What is this feeling?

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gray falcon
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Hey, so I'm 17, turning 18 this year. And it's so embarrassing to say that I've never been in a relationship EVER. Online or offline. Never. But yes i used to have a crush but it's fully one-sided so I kinda know what love feels like...? Maybe..? And recently I've been talking to this guy and he genuinely seems so sweet.

We never really hang out in person though, never really had the courage to talk to him irl because I'm a very awkward person and I'm scared to make a bad impression of myself. He's a guy in my class, but we usually talk through texts and messages.

We got along well, currently, we talk every single day. sending good morning's, good afternoon's and goodnights to each other. And we also planned our first hangout this week, playing Nintendo switch games together (and "it takes two" LOL). We have nicknames for each other, we occasionally send photos/videos to each other, we called once or twice while playing this stupid horror game that was so so funny and scary at the same time. We made each other little gifts (it's a secret cause we both want to surprise each other) and we also made a Spotify playlist together because we have matching music taste.

I feel normal(?) And happy(?) Whenever I talk to him. Maybe comfortable is the word for it(?) I genuinely don't know what I'm feeling for him. I don't know if this is love or not since it's much different than what I felt for the one sided crush thingy. Like when I was crushing, it's OBVIOUS. now it's not really obvious and I have no clue what's this feeling I'm experiencing.

(Also I'm sorry if my english is bad/if some text are unreadable. Since english isn't my first language)

gray falcon
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Might delete later cause I'm shy, also sorry for typing too long I don't know how these things work WumpusCozy

placid wing
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I would say all you need to do is take some moves and hangout because that’s what makes it even better

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And then go for a date . I would say its a situatuonship

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And how long have you been talking to him

gray falcon
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We've been talking for months... Maybe around 5-6 months ish? Or maybe more? I lost count

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I always see him as a friend though before that's why I never really keep track, but suddenly it turns to this and I seriously don't know what I'm feeling

placid wing
placid wing
gray falcon
# placid wing Wdym but do you want something more out of the friendship or

Thats what im confused about. I've never been in a relationship, I don't know if I should pursue or not since I'm pretty confused with this feeling. Like I mean yeah it feels comfortable being with him, but what I'm currently feeling feels unfamiliar. The last time i had a crush on someone it was obvious, now I'm not sure if I really do love him or if it's like.. A normal average feeling

placid wing
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You know what the idea of a relationship is so

gray falcon
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Like should I just keep talking and see if anything changes?

gray falcon
placid wing
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The feelings fade anyways

gray falcon
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Ohhh I see

placid wing
gray falcon
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And thank you for the suggestion! I will maybe try to hangout with him more often from now

placid wing
placid wing