Why not pursue her
#How to get less attached and care less?
quartz ermine
Are you comfortable sharing more , no pressure.
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Then why not have honest conversations about it. Let her know your feelings and also try to understand hers. And I am sure you both can come to an understanding.
K , let me share an important long term advice
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Try HCD
Honest Conversations and Distance
HC - Try your best to understand their feelings and let them know yours too.
Do that gaina and again and again till it becomes unbearable.
D - but once you realise HC will never work , then maintain permanent distance.
PS. By distance I mean emotional distance and not physical distance (cutting ties). Physical Distance is not something I will ever advise and is solely and only your decision.
Except in romantic relationships , which are based on love , absolute emotional distance is logically incoherent. Therefore in romantic relationships ,
D = breakup.
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Ping me if you need something else .
So that it creates notifications.
See you around.
No you don't distance yourself in romantic relationships.
Like I said , its breakup.
As for guilty you can be honest with her and tell her that we are not compatible. Its better we go separate.
Well if you have tried HC and hit your breaking point.
Then there is no way that relationship will ever succeed.
And you are now just merely running away from attachment with heartbreak.