Hi, am 16 year old girl
Facing problems in my life since Jan,
So, I got into high school met to people A nd K they became somehow good friends but since starting it was something off I don't know why K used to do back bit@hing about me and A, one day we went to library and our librarian is very frndly to us we were talking tht one of the gurls saw librarian at night around 9pm walking around so listening to this K sang a horrer song in sarcasm we laughed nd thn librarian came nd I told her about this later K got angry like why u told her I apologized her nd said it's not a bid deal, later whn I went to school they stopped talking to me both A nd K I didn't border nd left like every time on miscellaneous things they get angry on me nd stop talking to me nd i went to thm to please thm i didn't went this time of of self respect nd frm thn am feeling low
My bf stopped talking to me we were having a lot of fights idk what to do every one leaving no one staying I try to be happy but I can't feels lonely
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Sorry
#Need advice on friendship and how to deal them
devout swift
deft vigil
Friends make you feel happy. Friends give you support. If you feel like you can only be half of yourself, than is it really a relationship you want to commit to?
I don’t know too much about this, nor much context. But I recommend finding people you can be yourself around, finding people who you know will be there for you
sand osprey
I agree, it is very hard to find good friends, and creating good friendship sis a lot of effort. But even if you just make one of those friends in your life, and keep them close, all the other shitty ones were worth it. A relationship/friendship, needs to go both ways, if both people are not willing to be mature and do the right thing for the other in the relationship, stick around despite the other's flaws, issues, and problems.
Finding true friends is something I spent a lot of time doing, and it's very hard especially throughout high school. Kids are fucked up, but, everyone is truely just finding themselves and doing what they think is right for either them or others, or both sometimes. And other people will make shitty choices, a lot of people, and especially with women, people will tend to let their emotions get the best of them, it's hard, but letting yours not get the best of you in smaller situations is important, keeping your cool, and working through issues with people, and truely understanding them and their point of view, why they think how they do, things will make much more sense.
Take it as your responsibility to be honest, understand, and communicate with the other in any of your relationships. Finding good people is impossible if you never truely get to know people
On your boyfriend ghosting you, I believe much of what I say goes the other way, it does not reflect who you are, it reflects what kind of person he is.