#being lonely

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tulip swan
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I know it might suck at the moment, but know that later on people will mature and making friends can become a little more easier. Kids can say stupid stuff that they don’t necessarily mean, they just don’t understand that words can hurt others. A lot of times they want to act cool.

Keep being you and your crowd of people will come, sometimes it just takes a bit longer.

gusty jewel
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What are your interests kid?

astral magnet
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yea that sucks, not gonna sugarcoat it. Being stuck with people you don't even like at school is the worst. But honestly, school is just a small bubble. Just because those people think your interests are "weird" doesn't mean they actually are, they just don't get it.

Also the girlfriend thing, don't even worry about that right now. You're 13, most people your age are just messing around anyway. For now, just focus on your own stuff and don't try to force friendships with people who treat you like shit. Like @tulip swan said, a lot of people your age are just trying to act cool and talk about girls all the time. That's just how it is right now. You don't have to be like that. Half of them are just following each other anyway. If your interests are different, that's not a bad thing, it just means you're not copying everyone else. It won't stay like this forever, it just feels like that right now. The right people come later, not always in your current class.

fresh beacon
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your 13 dude, most kids your age are thinking similar things to you, its gonna be alright, just feel different stuff around, different people, clichles, interests, be open minded

tardy lantern
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hey man

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listen

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you CAN

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get a girlfriend

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youre just not looking in the right place

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you'll always be perfect to someone

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you'll always be the most amazing person to someone

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just look for the right place and the right person

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or if you cant find anyone yet

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focus on yourself

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if you chase butterflies

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they'll fly away

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but if you build a beautiful garden

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they'll come to you naturally

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and if they don't come

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you still have a beautiful garden

tardy lantern
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np

woven badge
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Just remember that no woman owes you access to her body.

And people don't owe you friendship.