#How to deal with jealousy based on looks

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low osprey
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Im just jealous of a guy who used to brag abt his looks

sick comet
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how can i stop it dude thats what is the problem

sick comet
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Whenever you start feeling jealous, pause and remind yourself that his bragging doesn’t define your worth.

nova shale
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nova shale
low osprey
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It's cuz my gf once liked him

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Mb man it's painful

wispy holly
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Dw don’t be insecure about another guy

low osprey
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Hmm..

low osprey
# wispy holly Once. Means she doesn’t like him anymore

But it still hurts and the reason she had crush on him which was forced is because she thought I had a gf, idk man it hurts thinking about the fact that she might have wanted him and would have stared and I'm overthinking everyday 😭

low osprey
# wispy holly But she chose you

Man but I can't even imagine she tried him badly and even proposed and asked her for which she answered she wanted love badly and not him bruh I can't stop thinking of one thing that he might have felt proud when she proposed and he might be flexing it and man I'm egoistic idk what I can do, and I don't know if I can love her too but I wanna love , I don't wanna luv cuz she tried a guy badly when I existed, I'm struggling thru this for like four months now

wispy holly
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Past is past

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If we were to overthink all "whatif"s we wouldn't be able to enjoy it

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yeah it is hard

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does she talk to her ex?

low osprey
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Nopeeee

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They never loved each other

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It was her crush and he ignored her so she lost interest in 5 months and loved me for one and half years truly

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Man but still it hurts cuz he flexed and my mind stored it like she is her gf

low osprey
low osprey
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I'm not mature enough to understand or realize that if it's wrong or right if there was anyone mature enough tell me if it's ok and I can like her

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Cuz she had crush on him for 5 months and tried to speak and call but he ignored her. But at first she thought I had a gf.

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Like I'm not sure cuz it hits my ego that she liked him when I existed and he always boasted about himself and with all this I'm with the girl who liked him idk, is it ok to still love her since this all happened in 2024 June to October

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Pls someone say...

wispy holly
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Idk what to say tbf friend

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U will need to stop thinking about other people

low osprey
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Hmm.