#How to deal with jealousy based on looks
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It’s normal to feel jealous sometimes, but try to focus on your own strengths instead of comparing yourself to him
how can i stop it dude thats what is the problem
Whenever you start feeling jealous, pause and remind yourself that his bragging doesn’t define your worth.
ty man
do you believe you should look just as good if not better than this other guy? Help me understand.
So he brags a lot about his looks which makes me kinda insecure and yeah which also makes me wanna be better than him
Why do you feel insecure to the point you're focusing on what this guy does?
Ur good dw
Once. Means she doesn’t like him anymore
Dw don’t be insecure about another guy
Hmm..
But it still hurts and the reason she had crush on him which was forced is because she thought I had a gf, idk man it hurts thinking about the fact that she might have wanted him and would have stared and I'm overthinking everyday 😭
But she chose you
Man but I can't even imagine she tried him badly and even proposed and asked her for which she answered she wanted love badly and not him bruh I can't stop thinking of one thing that he might have felt proud when she proposed and he might be flexing it and man I'm egoistic idk what I can do, and I don't know if I can love her too but I wanna love , I don't wanna luv cuz she tried a guy badly when I existed, I'm struggling thru this for like four months now
Well someone told me once
Past is past
If we were to overthink all "whatif"s we wouldn't be able to enjoy it
yeah it is hard
does she talk to her ex?
Nopeeee
They never loved each other
It was her crush and he ignored her so she lost interest in 5 months and loved me for one and half years truly
Man but still it hurts cuz he flexed and my mind stored it like she is her gf
She loved me for one and half years and I got committed with her before four months
She hates him now after knowing how bad he hurt me and she had never talked to him since he ignored her even though she tried
I'm not mature enough to understand or realize that if it's wrong or right if there was anyone mature enough tell me if it's ok and I can like her
Cuz she had crush on him for 5 months and tried to speak and call but he ignored her. But at first she thought I had a gf.
Like I'm not sure cuz it hits my ego that she liked him when I existed and he always boasted about himself and with all this I'm with the girl who liked him idk, is it ok to still love her since this all happened in 2024 June to October
Pls someone say...
Well
Idk what to say tbf friend
U will need to stop thinking about other people
Hmm.