Help

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I know this sounds stupid and all, but I have issues. Whenever I play video games or any card game that someone wins or something, I get mad. I don’t want to be mad, whenever I lose a game. I keep trying to tell myself “it’s just a game” but that doesn’t seem to help me. Please help. Thank you.

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I would say u might be just too competitive

And there is no real way of fixing it

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That wasn’t really the kind of answer I was looking for. No offense

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Its an introduction to my answer

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Ohh mb

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If u don’t mind me asking

Why do you think u can’t accept defeat

Like what makes u so competitive

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I don’t know, I can. It’s just I can’t accept in words. If that makes sense.

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It doesn’t no offence

Or i might be sleepy

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?

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Either way do elaborate

On what you mean

“Cant accept it in words”

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Like I can accept that I got defeated inside my brain, I just can’t do it in words. If that makes sense.

Like can’t give a complement

Instead of just being mad.

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Ah

So u just struggle saying “good game”?

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Yeah, basically

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but u do acknowledge being a loser

and

u don’t throw a tantrum

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Its fine

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Ummmm…. 😳

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Like

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I know what you mean

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I was expecting u to be a sore loser that

Gets mad

glad u cleared it up

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Haha, funny you say that. I do get mad at like video games.

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We all do

However you must know we aren’t good at everything

We shouldn’t be

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Excuse me!!!! Why can’t I say that?

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Cant say what

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It’s not political???

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the first word is censored

missle

Anyway as said

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I never said that though. Oh well.

Yeah anyways, moving on from that lol.

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the first word in the game u played.

😭

synonym of missle

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sigh

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Anyway as said

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🚀 this?

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U should work on ur issue

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Haha

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Yes

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Its easily solveable

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Ahhh. How is that political?

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I’m trying. 😭😭 I need an advice please.

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because countries use em to strike other countries

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Idk what to tell u

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Ohhh

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Swallow ur pride

Force urself to

Say good game

Although ngl

U don’t have to say it

As long as u understand that like

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Idk, maybe it could help me.

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U lost its okay

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Yeah. I know it’s ok that I lost. I just can’t accept that for some reason.

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Its fine to be competitive

Not to be arrogant

And well

A sore loser

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Yeah.

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So yeag

Work on being humble ig

U lose, you lose

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Hmm. 🤔

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Idk how to help u otherwise

I aint a therapist

Lol

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I’ll try to think positive whenever I lose.

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I know, I just don’t like being a sore loser and all.

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I mean not rlly about thinking positive

Its more like

Learning to accept outcomes that don’t favour us

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True.

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Sometimes u will throw a basket

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Maybe I should just join esports lol.

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Basketball into basket

And you will miss

But that’s just how it is

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Yeah.

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U can get better by practicing

Ofc

My dad told me that

U learn best from losing

Because if u play with someone better than u, u learn

Playing w someone worse than u, u don’t learn anything lol

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That’s interesting.

I wanna tell my parents I have like anger issues when I play video games, but they’ll just probably say “it’s just a game” which I know is true.