#My bf. (Idk where to put this sorry)

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wet marsh
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GUYS PLEASE HELP. Idk what to do 😭

blazing spruce
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They seem toxic and seem like they are seeking attention if anything

wet marsh
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You think so

blazing spruce
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Yea

rancid umbra
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It seems like he’s going through something have you talked to him/is he doing better now?

dim mesa
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Because what they are now in it’s hard to pull them out of that bad state

wet marsh
wet marsh
fallen snow
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I honestly think as someone who been there before(I have mental health issues diagnosed by a professional), one way you can tell someone is just using trying to take their life to grip you to them for either attention or just a form of wanting you to stay, is if you try ask them what can you do for them to help them feel better or just want to talk to them to comfort them, they just straight get offended you are trying to help or refuse to listen to anything you say. Another way you can go about this is just remove any dangerous objects from the person’s environment,try comfort them by trying to figure out what triggered them to feel like that, sit with them, let them vent or cry it out. But please know you can’t be sacrificing yourself to attend to them. Sometimes people just will use the s word to grip people close to them, or sometimes, only a professional like a therapist or counsellor can give them a way to cope.

fallen snow
# wet marsh He said he is feeling better <:doggo:1322460743844626473>

In that case when he is ready,just ask what even happened that made him feel that the s word is the only way out. I won’t immediately say he is trying to seek attention because that is a little insensitive to jump to that conclusion before you really know the full context. If he tells you and he just keeps exaggerating whatever bad happened was so bad it is the end of the world, I honestly will say he either has problems with overthinking or regulating his emotions or is looking for attention, again, know I am not a professional or will claim to be one, I simply am offering my experiences being someone who survived the s word and whatever I learned in therapy.

dim mesa
wet marsh
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Okay