#Break up

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coral carbon
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Hi hi. My Name is angel. I’m 27. I dated the father of my kids for 4 years basically married 3. He made some friends recently and left me after I asked for more of his time instead of him spending so much with his friends. I was so lost. He made new friends that great but all I was asking for was some attention. He blew up about it and decided to leave. I’m now left with two kids to take care of and a heart broke. More than I can even think of we were together a total of 7 years

tropic granite
coral carbon
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I don’t know why it was an argument…

tropic granite
# coral carbon I don’t know why it was an argument…

you can't know that because he is like that,you want attention but he don't he can be without you,you don't.

I was in similar situation and i got mentally drained from it for so long,i never understood why and i think I can't

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we were just opposite people that's why we never understood each other

coral carbon
tropic granite
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You know how they say,if you taking shower and water becomes cold someone else using it

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sorry to tell you but if there was female friends that means that he probably found someone interesting

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You don't know what he is doing with those friends but you should not care

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You need to focus on future now,you don't need manchild, you're woman and you have your needs, you're not wrong but he is

coral carbon
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Oh yeah there’s one female out of his whole group

tropic granite
coral carbon
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Because everything was fine

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TIL she showed up

tropic granite
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he married you and he is giving more attention to her

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that's crazy

coral carbon
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And it’s not like I’m terrible either

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I do everything

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The bills

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The kids

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The cleaning

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The cooking

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And let him do whatever

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Game

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Sleep

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Whatever he wants

tropic granite
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that's his loss, every man would like woman like you

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shame he is childish

coral carbon
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I just was trying

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For nothing it feels…

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All I asked for was love

tropic granite
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It seems that he just don't like you like he used to if he can just throw everything like that

coral carbon
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But see that’s the thing…he left me but still what’s things that you do in the relationship….its like

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The friends are holding him back

tropic granite
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in my view i just think he like someone in that group,if you love someone you want to be with him and he should feel like how you feel about him

coral carbon
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I think so too…

tropic granite
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staying in this state won't do anything for you

coral carbon
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I’m trying

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I’m making new friends

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Not caring as much as I use to

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Making him figure it out

tropic granite
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that's bad

coral carbon
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I told him benefits stopped when you stopped

tropic granite
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you letting him do whatever he wants

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you need to have some boundaries

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and he need to respect it

coral carbon
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Sadly even if

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He crossed it anyways

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No matter what I set

tropic granite
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then meybe you need to leave

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you can't let yourself to workiship someone he is nothing better than you

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you are a human like he is

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if he wanted to,he would

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don't depend on anyone in that way

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your fate is whatever he do

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don't let that

coral carbon
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I’m jus at the moment so lost without him

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But I know he’s dangerous for me

coral carbon
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Ugh I just got home from work

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And he’s so mad just cause I’m on my phone I already know it

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I need it to end

tropic granite
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yeah.... there's no any good reason for you to be with him

coral carbon
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I don’t understand

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Any of this

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It’s like he’s confused

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And now he’s confusing me