#Cant move on

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odd parcel
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I contacted this girl asking about our schedule for our football club, she responded but it spiraled into a conversation, add we added each other on everything. The next day she asked me out on a movie date, and confessed there on how shes had a small crush on me for awhile. We started dating then a few months later i was destroyed she told me she hasent moved on from someone else, and it made me so sad, i shed a few tears, i still think of her, and wondered if it couldve been different. She added me back as "friends" but Im not sure if ive moved on from her. I cant forget her warm hugs and her warm hands. And the mole in her eye. I need advice and help on this. thanks

pure cave
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I would go back to the way things were before her. Visit with friends, hang out with family, maybe try new hobbies.

If you find yourself thinking about her, recall the truths that exist now..

  • she wasn’t over someone
  • she knew she was ready to date but did so anyway
    That’s not what you want in a partner. You are not second choice, ever.

Process what you feel, jot it down on paper and rip it up. The mind needs to carry out its thoughts in physical form🤷🏻‍♀️makes it “real”.

Healing is not linear. Just focus on today and how you can make it better and then try again tomorrow and the next day. You’ll heal, you just gotta remember this is a chapter in your life, not the whole book.

odd parcel