alot going on at school

[pseudo prairie]

im the main target for getting bullied at school and got horrible grades i look horrible dont have any friends some self hate and i js dont know what to do im stuck and i want to get my life in check but i dont know what i should do please help

[patent tapir]

If the authorities have failed to protect you despite your complaints then you should change schools or take a drop year or online schooling

[somber dirge]

honestly just make sum1 like suho ur friend and lwkey carry a pen with u all the time (weak hero ref)

[pseudo prairie]

im also a bit young to do allat and i dont wanna change schools cus i have some friends there i dont wanna lose cus they dont contact ppl alot

[patent tapir]

You will get worse if you exist in that environment and are suffering by those bullies .

[pseudo prairie]

but im js too young to do anything and im a bit afraid of starting over and i might lose everything and i js hate conflict

[patent tapir]

what have your parents, teachers and thes school board has said?

[pseudo prairie]

my parents js talk to the school and the school js tells them off and ill js move classes im alr changing but the thing is im like the main target for bulliing in my yr so every class has one

like as soon as i walked in to my new class i instantly heard someone js talking crap bout me

and its never always js words

i got like pyhsiclly bullied a few times alr

[patent tapir]

as long as you are not directly a victim of it don't think much about it

[pseudo prairie]

im like fine with words but i cant js hide my emotions for that long and js yh

[patent tapir]

do you like start the physical altercation ?

[pseudo prairie]

no even if i dont i dont want to do anything about it cus im js weak and i dont like getting in trouble or stuff like that

and even when i do stuff it js makes it worse somehow

they literally do everything they can to bullie

me

like tts gcs so on

[patent tapir]

What?

[pseudo prairie]

tic toks

and most likely group chats to do smt but not sure bout that one

[patent tapir]

better learn a combat sport then

[pseudo prairie]

i wanna do that and the gym but i feel like some of siblings (my brother) would make fun of that and i js wouldnt wanna do that stuff

[patent tapir]

bruh

[pseudo prairie]

but idk cus its been a while since i done sport so idk if hes changed

[patent tapir]

don't overthink

do what is better for you

if you can't do what I said

[pseudo prairie]

how am i not meant to

[patent tapir]

gym and combat sports are good

[pseudo prairie]

i have to think of like all the secnarios that could happen if i do it

[patent tapir]

are you getting help from a professional ?

[pseudo prairie]

no i dont want to

[patent tapir]

make it productive yeah

[pseudo prairie]

i like keeping stuff like that personal

i dont like sharing ts stuff to ppl ik

cus they could use it or if they bully me about it or make fun of it then id js feel worse

[patent tapir]

?

[pseudo prairie]

no i dont like ppl knowing whats going on if its stuff like ts

[pseudo prairie]

id only talk to ppl i dont know

and i js dont like other ppl i know knowing about it

[somber dirge]

That's basic venting and that's good for ur mental health ig

But you would have to get professional help sooner so that it doesn't get worse

Or just handle the situation ur self

Learn combat sports I mean it helps and like maybe try to run away from this situations

Go. Into public where the situation doesn't get worsw

[pseudo prairie]

but hten more ppl there would js bully me

[somber dirge]

They don't gotta know

[pseudo prairie]

like the ppl in public

[somber dirge]

Just wear a mask while traveling and the kids at the gym would probably just be friends with u

[pseudo prairie]

aghhh i dont know i want ppl to like tha actall me but then again thatd js make them bully ime i tihnk but if i wear a mask thatd js feel horrible like im letting everyone win but oml i js dont even know imn stuckk between everythin rn

i kinda ahte all of this cus i know the next day ima js feel like i done everything i shouldnt have and it js done nothing

[somber dirge]

U gotta go low to fly high bruh take care

[fallow cedar]

I can teach him 💪

@pseudo prairie

[fallow cedar]

I personally can’t do that it takes a lot of self control like a monk.

[junior hornet]

that wont help

Let me teach him I make people fear me best method lowkey

[fallow cedar]

How not

[junior hornet]

fighting just give him more problem

[fallow cedar]

He’d win

[junior hornet]

threat them to show it to fbi,police,school,social media

then they will stop

saying you will snitch on them in school if school didnt work he will slowly work up to higher authorize

then social media

it will scared the school too

because it effect rating

an let your parent know

this 100% works

[fallow cedar]

No

[junior hornet]

wait is there problem with his parent?

[fallow cedar]

They won’t care unless you call them

[junior hornet]

tell the school first

[fallow cedar]

No I personally just wouldn’t

[fallow cedar]

He said he did

[junior hornet]

then school say no or just do least work then threat them with social media or higher authorite of the school

there is people that higher power then the school an the school 100% cares

[fallow cedar]

That would be very hard, he should just learn from me

[undone mountain]

i just read the thing and i haven't been bullied so im not going to say that i understand what you are going through but i think that if the school doesn't help the escalate bring it up the ladder tell people higher up and you should learn self-defense not to teach them a lesson but if the bullies physically attack you, you wont be defenseless and document everything because documentation and proof can be every thing

[junior hornet]

well self defense going get him hurt

yk

[fallow cedar]

It never got me hurt though

[junior hornet]

he still a kid he should grow up but like he shouldnt worry about fighting more worry about education

[undone mountain]

the school bord would care if there is a group of parents that help they would be conserned because if you are bullied why not their kid

[junior hornet]

there difference between good at fighting an bad at fighting

[fallow cedar]

What about it

[undone mountain]

i agree fighting should be a last resort

[junior hornet]

if they bad at fighting they flinch more an dont like it that much

[fallow cedar]

I flich to everything

[undone mountain]

you might be lucky or just a little better that the people around you fighting is always a danger especially if you don't have experience

[fallow cedar]

How am I lucky?

[fallow cedar]

I don’t think it would change much anywhere I go

[undone mountain]

i should not have said lucky sorry

[fallow cedar]

No it’s alr I just want you to explain it

@junior hornet

[junior hornet]

?

[undone mountain]

if yo have won every fight you just haven't been in a fight with someone better at fighting there is always someone stronger than you be it always or just in the moment there is a chance you will fight someone more skilled or powerfull that you

[junior hornet]

:L hmm I play dirty fight lowkey

striaght into weak spot

[undone mountain]

good

[junior hornet]

then use umbrella

[undone mountain]

there is no such thing as a fair fight

[junior hornet]

spank them like i am there dad

[fallow cedar]

Na I’d never truly loose

Against someone my age

[undone mountain]

i don't believe that is possible because the only thing that doesn't change is the fact everything changes

[fallow cedar]

2+2 will always be 4

[undone mountain]

its an expression

[fallow cedar]

What about it

[undone mountain]

idk how to put it into words sorry

found a site explaining the original quote from a Greek philosopher may i dm you it its not letting me send it here

[fallow cedar]

Sure

[undone mountain]

done

[fallow cedar]

Let’s just talk here though

[undone mountain]

yeah this is an interesting debate and i think it is important

[fallow cedar]

Yeah it seems like a psuedodebate but more so a vent and discourse

[undone mountain]

fair though i think i lost the plot a little

should op use fighting as only a last resort?