I feel like I have been living "for" other's, doing things bc they like it, choosing something because they might like it and in the process "ignoring" my own wants and needs. I struggle to be myself and not put on a "mask" and it's bad for me and my relationship w my gf since it creates a huge imbalance..
I learned half this behavior from my parents so not a lot of support to be expected from that side(ive tried)
I struggle to actually get up and do things, I tend to avoid them and then if I actually manage to do something I struggle with consistency
Any advice on how to start putting myself first?
And on how to not avoid things simply bc Im scared of them or they're hard
Thank you all in advance
If you have any questions feel free to ask
#Former people pleaser lost with life..
rancid willow
teal thicket
Be a bit more narcissistic/prideful