Everytime I make a friend im stuck in this loop of them talking to me for like a week maybe more and then they leave me. I've struggled with loneliness for years, its so bad that I gained really bad anxiety around people so I find it really hard to actually start a conversation and i more or less can only really give replys as i struggle a lot with sarting conversations cause of this. Its really pressuring me now as im stuck lonely because i cant maintain friendships since people just get bored of me and ditch me for newer friends and it crushes me everytime, its like a cycle of gaining and loosing hope. Im not sure on what to do because I dont really know how to reach out to people and stuff like that since i've never really had friends that stayed long enough for it
#Im stuck in this loop of loneliness
cursive juniper
keen pelican
Hey @cursive juniper,
I understand your feeling and im truly sorry for the way you are struggling in
Having a true friend like a brother or sister can be with you in hard times
Having this true friend is actually like having like million friends
Listen
Who goes away let him or her go
Don't like make yourself like not as them or in the size like don't give them a bigger care than they do
Just do the same care give the same that they give u
And also
I have only 3 true friends
I test them
And they stayed with me
But i see that you are very broken from this idea of u can't get a friend
Just try to if you are in school try to make friends by having a sociable conversation
Like hi how was your day
And day by day get their numbers and have a good time
Also
Your neighbor
Be close to them if they are nice
Its just be more sociable and try to over come this fear by trying and keep trying till you find the best friend ever
I be here if you need a friend 🙏