#Drunk sexual stuff ( + 18 )

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sharp current
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So i was over at a friends girl house and we got both super drunk and it ended with us making out and some sexual stuff ( not sex but yk ) we are both 15 which is the legal age if consent in my country but i just didnt want to do anything sexual with her ( sober me ) and i regret it and the worst part is i dont really want this getting out and i think neither does she, my bestfriend is her bestfriend and i dont knos how to distance myself from her and how to manage this whole situation

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and i just have nk idea what should i do , is it better to distance nyself from her, never bring the situation uo again and treat it as a dumd drunk mistake idk

lament fjord
# sharp current and i just have nk idea what should i do , is it better to distance nyself from ...

Hello.
​I think that you should not ignore someone you have done that with because it was just an honest mistake. What works best is for you to confront her and see how she truly feels about it. If it turns out that she likes you then you could see what to do from there and move forward together.
​Distancing yourself would only make things worse because she could see it as something entirely different and it could really hurt her feelings. It is much better to speak to her and have a real conversation so you can see how things progress from there. You are a good person for feeling guilty about doing those things and being honest will help both of you feel much more comfortable.

You could also ask if she likes you or she has feelings for you in a way.

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I don't know the entire story, and I'm hoping what you did wasn't sexual assault (God I hope not.)

I haven't heard the full story that much in detail, so maybe you could tell me what exactly happened, and when you've read my messages confront her immediately because it'd make things better.

sharp current
sharp current