My advice would be a therapist or try to think about small steps you can take. Share with him the steps you are taking and ask him to be honest with you. A healthy relationship isn’t one where you go to other people to talk to about your problems. You have to talk to each other. I just had a 2 and a half year relationship end because my girlfriend told her friends our problems and wouldn’t tell me then just fell out of love with me when I didn’t change because to me we were happy and content. So yeah healthy communication is a must for any relationship worth literally anything
#i'm 16, i feel lost
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Small steps as in day by day start doing things to prop yourself up. If you are having a hard time doing things then don’t try and tackle it all at the same time. If you must then you need to take it step by step day by day. One day idk brush you’re teeth and if you can’t do anything else then so be it because you took a small step and can take a different one the next day like sweeping a floor or something. Obviously your issue isn’t cleaning but try to tackle your issues similar way. Me personally I would tell him that be can’t be nonchalant about his needs in the relationship because you can’t read minds. Then if he does tell you then try to make small changes in your life slowly over time to make it towards the goal of whatever he said and eventually you’ll make it there. Through small baby steps if need be. Did that make any sense I just woke up randomly so sorry if not
I’m sorry that is a rough spot to be in. If they truly won’t if you ask then you need to find someone to talk to about your issues because you can’t just bottle them up. You’ll just end up exploding. Also if you want to be independent and find out who you are then do some self discovery. Try out new things find out what you like and don’t like
Yeah no problem if you need anything @ me or something I’ll be around at some point