ive noticed a lot of people talk over eachother in the venting chats, and it can come off as really rude so i feel like there should be like a rule against venting over people and a grace period between people messaging if thay makes sense?
like if i vent, nobody replies, then someone else vents
but if im in the middle of a helpful conversation and someone else jumps in randomly, to me its rude and makes it feel like my problems dont matter
i may have phrased this poorly