ever since thursday my bf has been like distant to me hes showing me attitude and just being rude i guess, he keeps saying he likes me and stuff but his attitude isnt showing so.
even with my family, they always expect me to be "perfect" like everyone isnt perfect i like korean foods and japanese food aswell they always judge me for that and because i like motorbikes and anime and kpop aswell. they always say im "obsessed" just for liking something every mistake i do they always call me out for it they criticize me just for a tiny mistake
even my friends they dont care about me they always make me feel like a loner i have no one to talk to so i dont mind if u dm me to be friends i guess
#I need help
subtle hamlet
modest gazelle
I'm sorry to hear that ik what it feels like for people to always judge u and criticise for what u enjoy and like
yk u can always enjoy what u like the most
u don't have to care about their judgement or whatever
if u need any help reach out to people in this server like me 🙂
bitter acorn
Hey, I can tell you’ve been dealing with a lot lately. It really sucks when people you care about make you feel judged for just being yourself. That kind of stuff hurts more than most people realize.
There’s nothing wrong with liking K-pop, anime, motorbikes, or food from other cultures ; those things are part of what makes you.... you. It’s totally okay to have passions and interests. You don’t need to be “perfect” for anyone.
And with your bf acting distant… that’s hard too. But it’s normal to feel confused and sad. It doesn’t mean you did anything wrong.
I’m happy you talked about this instead of keeping it all in. You don’t have to go through stuff like this alone, okay? I’m here, and I care.