#How do I fix this..

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formal onyx
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So..

I usually have bad problems going on , and I usually say "lemme ignore my problems it doesn't matter lemme help other people"

So like I take all negativity in no matter what it is and sometimes I cry when sleeping in bed when I feel like on my lowest and..

Actually I give too much attention and care and love to people more than myself..like I am cool and attractive some people are confused why do I do this and how am I like this

And when I vent I cry so much ..but sometimes I feel embarrassed I am like the most boy who cries in class but still people see me strong

And that's so till I started seeking.. seeking emotional love and emotional support and that's not usually me ,I have anger issues also but whatever I started seeking love and I need a hug a hug would solve everything..

And I feel so lonely and I am tired of it and I don't know even why am I here saying all this I guess god lead me here to write this..

Thankkk you all for your attention:)))

formal onyx
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No body wanna helps me?..😭😭😭😭

upper hornet
# formal onyx So.. I usually have bad problems going on , and I usually say "lemme ignore my ...

Well first of all u should try to help yourself cuz helping others but not u is kinda bad sometimes taking in mind that they can use you and when u don't help someone you are bad for some reason soo uhh try to solve your problems first cuz u don't know if the other people will help you cuz they could just say "I never asked you to" and it hurts sometimes u know

Just Stop putting other people before you for a moment and start taking some time to help you thinking about what You should do to solve your problems, and think if you are really helping and not just being an object for the people to abuse

edgy tundra
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I experienced a similar thing in my past relationship - I’d rather absorb all my negative emotions to avoid a conflict. Now it’s not that big of a problem after it ended but it’s still there.
I guess it has something to do with low self esteem which I do struggle with. Sadly I have no idea how to deal with it.

formal onyx
formal onyx
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Thank yall

surreal sentinel