I am 15 and seek advice from other members of this discord and have been putting off displaying my feelings to people because of my current situation.About a few months ago I had a house fire which was an accident caused by an electrical box,ever since this happened I’ve been staying at my grandparents for the last few months and feel awful that we have to occupy so much space and like an ungrateful brat.I don’t want to say my feelings out loud to any of my family because we already have a lot on our plate,and a few weeks ago my grandparents cat died,I’ve never really cried at deaths before but this one really hurt me and I ended up crying for days,she was about the same age as me and reminded me being younger than I am,she was also the only person I vented my feelings to.However even more recently,I have been attacked on the internet for being a male and I feel so disgusting and ashamed for being a male,what ashames me even more is that my girl best friend is reposting this type of content that incriminate males which makes me doubt myself and believe she sees me as one of these people.If you read this thanks very much and I hope you have a good day
#I feel ashamed
arctic pebble
low pond
Hey bro, first of all i’m sorry to hear that you had a house fire. You shouldn’t feel guilty about staying and your grandparent’s house tho. You have no other choice. You are not an “ungrateful brat” for that. I’m also sorry to hear about the cat dying, i can imagine that you loved it very much. I have a cat too and i would be destroyed if something happened to it so that’s normal. Also about your girl best friend, idk her so I shouldn’t be saying too much but u shouldn’t feel guilty about having a male genitalia basically, just because some women hate all men doesn’t mean that all men are bad. I hope you can get through everything, i know that u can do it. Keep going bro.