Girlfriend broke up with me cause I had trust issues but she never really did anything to reassure me or anything but let me explain you y’all how she was. She was the sweetest girl you’ll ever meet the one who would do anything for anybody, she use to drop me off food, wiped away my tears, let me stay at her house when my parents kicked me out, she was a very sweet kind hearted caring person and I feeel like I lost the good girl that is so rare to find nowadays but at the same time she had very bad qualities she would shut down and not talk. Whenever we had a fight she shut down and didn’t talk and always wanted distance. I could never do what I wanted in the relationship without being accused of being an asshole or everything else. I only got introduced to a handful of friends and when I was around them she always made fun of me by calling me stupid or just being mean for no reason. I took her to the clinic one day cause she wasn’t feeling the best and because the doctor couldn’t do anything for her she flipped out on me for it and called me annoying and stuff. Whenever she was mad she was so cruel and didn’t give a fuck about me. She would say things to me and I’d bring them up later and she would say “I never fucking said that” she would always call me a narcissist and a psycho all because I had trust issues?? I treated her so good besides being a little worried when she went out to the bars drinking. She would call her guy friends infront of me or answer there calls infront of them. Talk to them like it’s nothing once the phone call is done she’d go back to being quiet and not talking to me. I went to the bar with my buddies one night and seen her there she came up to me and when I tried placing my hand on her back she moved it away . She kept talking to her guy friends there and wouldn’t Introduce me. She had times where she said she was going home and at home she wouldn’t respond for hours on end after the club and her excuses were she wasn’t on her phone
#Do we think I lost the good girl?
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her balcony drinking with her friend. From 1am until 4am she couldn’t get back to me and when I called and she finally answered she seemed scared? Multiple times she go ghost for like 7-8 hours at a time and say she was busy and couldn’t message me back but whenever I’m with her she’s always scrolling on her phone or texting, calling people back? Idk she did some amazing things for me but at the same time I felt disrespected and the only thing I did wrong to her was have trust issues and the same time my parents kicked me out so I was a little bit of an asshole I guess but not towards her just in general. We also had an argument wwhere she hit me on my arm and she did apologize but we were arguing another time and she was yelling at me calling me a fucking asshole and wouldn’t let me get a word in so I kinda placed my hands on her elbows and gently said can you calm down and she was so bad saying I abused her and shit and everytime we fought she brought up how assaulted her and stufff?? Fast forward a couple of days we’re driving to a date and she full on hits me in the shoulder like pretty hard and when I say something she says grow up?? What do yall think. When she did leave me tho she you know I was loyal to you this entire time and never even looked another guys way??? So it’s like etf
To add on her being the good girl she got me a bracelet the first time we hungout , got me vitamins cause I have liver problems, for my birthday she spoiled me and went all out so idk