am i in the wrong??

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my old friend blocked me about a week ago and tbh idk why, like the reason our friendship ended was because like a couple days before i could tell that they were like pushing me away and didnt wanna say it, and then they posted something in our groupchat that they thought was funny but i thought it was wrong (it was a video of a guy getting badly injured) so i called her out for it and she full on just got pissed and blocked me (i did think it was wrong but part of the reason i said something and didnt just stay silent was because i could tell she was js trying to get rid of me lowkey so i just gave her a reason to) so this whole thing happened in like 2024, flash forward to a week ago when she blocked me bc its been ages and i thought she was over the argument we had, so i liked a tiktok on her page because it was about our old friend group and then about 5 seconds later i watched her block me and then my other old friend messages me asking why i was on her page 😭 like jesus christ?? i think she thinks i dislike her girlfriend or something even though ive literally never had a problrm with her gf at all 💔 or idk maybe they just hate me

and now i have to go to college with this girl this september 😭 what am i gonna do bro

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like this girl posted about one of our mutual friends using the photo I LITERALLY TOOK OF THEM

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honestly, she sounds like a very bad and dramatic person. I'd suggest you distance yourself from her. she'll drain all your energy if you try to fix things. also, dont bother explaining yourself to her or your other friends because they probably won't understand it. just ignore her whole existence and try to leave peacefully. i know its hard but you can do it.

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i think this girl likes to create dramas and stuff for fun or who knows she might be doing this to annoy you.

she sounds very immature (blocking without communicating first) so don't bother to talk about things with her

cuz i don't think she'll understand it

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she was always so goddamn passive aggressive but i always thought she was so fucking cool & i actually was stupid enough to believe she was my best friend at one point!! but of course not because its really stupid of me to think anyone actually would care about me that much if there wasnt an obligation to (like being a family member)

[shut patrol]

she'll probably also try to victimize herself and make u the bad person

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yeah i guess you realized your mistake. she wasn't a good person to begin with like being aggressive for no reason towards your friend is just rude. she could've atleast told u not to be your friend, if she didn't like you. instead, she chose to be a bad person.

also, you deserve care and love too. you'll find someone who'll truly care about you someday. don't think that u don't deserve it. don't ruin a part of your life just because someone you trusted turned out to be a bad person.

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like for example we had this old friend who my mutual friends had explicitly told me this person had been continuously hurting their feelings and shit, so of course in the end im the one who actually confronts them, that entire group basically left me to be the bad guy and make me act like the fucking ringleader. looking back i think they wouldve rather just talk shit about that person for the rest of the friendship than actually confront them about anything

i think its just better if i stay out of friendships tbh i just end up driving them away in the end

i dont know

[shut patrol]

please try to find better people for friendships. I'm guessing you're bad at spotting people like i can feel if some friendship groups are good for me or not.

i hope you find good friends tho. good luck with that 🤞🏻