Not sure where to place this post recently had a breakup of a 5 year relationship and it messed me up pretty bad. i recently met with a girl who was almost an exact spitting image of my ex girlfriend, come to find out she had just broken up with her bf 24 hours prior, i made it fairly clear i did not have any interest in a one night stand but admittedly was sideswiped at how sweet she was and how deep the conversation was and folded waking up to the "user not found" stung is it weird to feel guilty used even though i enjoyed my night and conversation with her? I caught feeling much sooner than i should have and realized too late i would be a rebound and im not sure how to feel i guess?
#I need advice
winter rose
bleak hound
Not sure where to place this post recently had a breakup of a 5 year relationshi...
Not sure what you are really looking for and what you would like to hear. If you haven't processed a breakup its really not a smart decision to meet any new women in this period you know. The good thing that you could take from this would be to recognize that you could have attachment issues and potentially struggle with being independent to some degree, which you could reflect on in the future. I don't think it can be said that she used you in any way either since you mentioned that you just had a conversation, but its understandable if you felt taken back by being blocked.
You say your breakup messed you up pretty bad, how exactly? What are you still struggling with? How long has it been since the breakup, has some progress been made? Did you make any potential plans on how to take care of this better and not to sink into the pain too much?
winter rose
Not sure what you are really looking for and what you would like to hear. If you...
It was a bit more than a conversation I admitted i just did not expect the conversations we had to end up becoming us becoming intimate and afterwards planning dates and ideas just to suddenly not speak with them, threw me for a loop i suppose
zinc prism
Try escorts.
winter rose
Try escorts.
Bruh 😂
signal raft
It was a bit more than a conversation I admitted i just did not expect the conve...
you mentioned she broke up with her boyfriend 24hrs prior texting you. her talking about going on dates with you was a major red flag. you should've avoided her. maybe she was just using you to distract herself from her breakup and the next day she went back to her ex. i feel bad for you as well as for her ex. be glad that she left you, it maybe a blessing in disguise yk.