crush I like

[native sundial]

Right when class ends. Go up to them, sit down or just tell them to sit down and introduce yourself. Be like "hey im [l][o][s][e][r], can I have your number" and blah blah, and then cool go to your next class.

Just simply be confident and ask them. If they say sure, you can now text them without having others listen to you guys talk if youre nervous about that. Then through text get to know them. You'll probably end up texting him through some of your classes and then at the end of the day just say "ill cya tomorrow" or whenever you guys have class together.

Just slowly keep that up and eventually you'll be sitting next to eachother, then slowly you'll walk to classes, then you'll hang out after school boom you have a boyfriend

like im not even lying its really easy, literally just go up to them after class and politely ask can i get your number. and text them during the same day.

(if its your last period with him) same thing, just text him during the day after school).

dont say you like him or anything tho

[cerulean thistle]

What if I'm shy asf

[cerulean thistle]

I only have 1 class with him which is PE

[cerulean thistle]

So idk

And i don't wanna go up to him first because I feel like he would have a bad impression of me

[frigid pecan]

I wouldn't recommend opening with the number line straight away

Especially if they've never spoken before

You could do a cover... "hey I'm making a group chat"

Otherwise I'd recommend building a friendship before asking for their number

[cerulean thistle]

I really feel like I don't want too like go up to him first because like what if he has like a bad impression of me and its going to be awkward ykwim?

Like idk I feel like I should wait

[odd wraith]

Try buying some snacks, pretend you can't finish them. And then casually say, "Hey, I can't seem to finish this, will you help me? I don't want it to go to waste.." If he does accept, start some small conversations while you guys are eating together. If he doesn't accept, then it's okay

[blazing storm]

Invite him to your Minecraft server.

[native sundial]

Make a group chat buts just you and him

[cerulean thistle]

He doesn't know me

[cerulean thistle]

Bro what

[cerulean thistle]

Some dork shit

[blazing storm]

Aight. Stay single, then.

[cerulean thistle]

Your 20 talking to a 15 yr old get off discord w your grown ass and get a job

[blazing storm]

Projection.

[cerulean thistle]

Ain't nobody projecting

U got mad bc I said an opinion first so don't...

[blazing storm]

You are projecting. You are unhappy with my advice.

You are mad.

[cerulean thistle]

Ok bc I don't like it so wsp?

Literally thats what i thought

[odd wraith]

You're in the same class as him. You asked how to talk to someone you never talked to before yeah? Why not connect through food?

[blazing storm]

What does wsp mean?

[cerulean thistle]

I mean bc like I feel like that might be weird

or awkward

If u do it u do u

But if yk me ima awkward person and i do have some trust issues here and there and I don't want put the guy on a pedastool and he ends up being an ass or something

[odd wraith]

It's all in the perspective. You're not putting them on a pedestal.
If not food, just casually ask him if he understood the subject written on the board or something. Again, you asked how to talk to someone you've never talked to before.

[cerulean thistle]

I know I did but like why food though?

like I feel like its a little awkward

if we never talked before

if ykwim

and another thing I'm just saying

bc idk him personally

I know its because I asked but I'm js saying common sense

also I'm in high school so idk if you would understand

[blazing storm]

If food doesn’t work, you could try asking him if he plays Fortnite?

[cerulean thistle]

u don't js go up to a random person say "AyE Do YOu play fornite"

if yall dont know each other

[blazing storm]

Sure, you can. You can go up to anyone you don’t know and just talk to them.

That’s pretty much what everyone here is suggesting you can do, because it’s literally the only thing you can do if you don’t know him.

[cerulean thistle]

well like bc u guys are telling me things what to say when I say idk him tho like can it js be something I could start slow with

[blazing storm]

Just say hi and ask him anything you like to start a conversation. If he needs a reason why you’re talking to him it’s because you want to get to know him.

[cerulean thistle]

its so obvious tho

[blazing storm]

Adults do it all the time.

[cerulean thistle]

am I an adult tho?

no

and to be real with u idk how he is and stuff

[blazing storm]

You need to learn to be one.

And this would be a good way to get out of your comfort zone.

[cerulean thistle]

its not even that

I never actually had good experiences with people

I js don't wanna have the same mistakes and I don't wanna be too quick with things

its not even js being shy

people are not always social all the time

like me

[blazing storm]

I get that. Unfortunately, for people like you, there is nothing else you can do if you're interested in someone than to go up to them and speak to them. You might screw up, but people screw up all the time until they succeed. It's just the cruel reality of your world, but it's far from the worst life you could possibly have.

Just take a chance and see what happens. Or do nothing and nothing will probably happen.

[cerulean thistle]

anything could happen

[blazing storm]

Literally anything.

[cerulean thistle]

I believe in God over here so idk only he knows whats right

ykw fine I'll just do it

[blazing storm]

You'll be fine. Good luck.

[cerulean thistle]

I feel pressured lwk

[blazing storm]

Just name me during the wedding as thanks.

[cerulean thistle]

did you not js see what I just said

[blazing storm]

You're welcome. I'm so excited for you two.

[cerulean thistle]

bro like do you not understand

I feel a little pressured by it

[blazing storm]

That's just your brain trying to give you an excuse not to do something that could be really, really good for you.

[cerulean thistle]

but why now?

[blazing storm]

Because you're anxious.

[cerulean thistle]

well like yeah its alot for me

[blazing storm]

That's because it might be worth it.

[cerulean thistle]

and it sounds too much on me for rn

[blazing storm]

Well, look, you don't have to do it like immediately. You can pick anytime you like to go chat him up.

It's not like the world will end if you fail.

Or wait too long.

[cerulean thistle]

its annoying atp

[blazing storm]

Well, hey. It's your problem. You sought us out for advice.

[cerulean thistle]

well like can I like atleast wait?

[blazing storm]

You can do anything you want.

[cerulean thistle]

like cut me some slack gng

[blazing storm]

I'm just answering your questions.

[cerulean thistle]

school js started

[blazing storm]

Go study. We need more doctors.

[cerulean thistle]

I have my own business I'm good

and like why I'm not even tryna be rude or anything I'm js saying yk I'm js saying idk I wanna do it yet

[odd wraith]

You got a point there man

[blazing storm]

Thank you.

[blazing storm]

You, too. Everyone loves food and can relax and let their guard down when eating.

[cerulean thistle]

But like I don't wanna rush anything

[cerulean thistle]

I don't wanna do everything right away

Like can I atleast wait till the time is right?

Like goddamn

[odd wraith]

Excuses. The right time is now. What's your plan? Wait too long till he has a gf? And hope he'll cheat for you? Is that what you want?

[cerulean thistle]

Are you dumb?

I'm talking abt if i could js wait for a bit

I don't want it to be right away

Talking abt some "ExCusEs"

That ain't making up excuses

But go off

[odd wraith]

You can yap this much to me but not to him lmao but ok I'm dumb w/e 🤷‍♀️

Keep making excuses till he's taken ig

[cerulean thistle]

no bc hes my crush I can talk to him whenever I want

it doesn't have to be in 2 seconds

[odd wraith]

And when another girl braver than you gets to him 1st? Then what

[cerulean thistle]

I have a question

who's crush is this mines or yours?

[odd wraith]

You already have common interest. Just go on that

[cerulean thistle]

exactly

[cerulean thistle]

Who tf is u

Can i atleast js like do it anytime I want?

people have lives

and i could tell your chronically online

[odd wraith]

True,you're single I'm not. Keep attacking someone who was in the exact same spot who you're in now

All the advice I'm giving is just what I did

No need to get mad cuz yknow I'm right,keep coping and making excuses ig

[cerulean thistle]

Are you like expecting me to do like do it immediately?

[odd wraith]

Why not?

[cerulean thistle]

bc today is a Friday my guy

[odd wraith]

It's not even confessing

Just talk about your common interests,could lead to somewhere sooner

[cerulean thistle]

I think I already know that

I know what to say thank you

Your being slow

not everything has to be rushed

[odd wraith]

Exactly y'all free af

Why not

[cerulean thistle]

Omg your actually stupid

Stop pressuring my ass already

[odd wraith]

Says you tryna argue w/ someone online when yknow they're right instead of actually talking to your crush 💀

But alright I'm stupid sure

[cerulean thistle]

why do u care

don't even worry about that my guy

[odd wraith]

You literally came here seeking for advice girl

You don't want us to care?

[cerulean thistle]

well yeah

If u care then u wouldn't be rushing me tho

[odd wraith]

My advice legit boils down to "just do it"

[cerulean thistle]

plus another thing

ive actually already talked to him already

LMAOAOAOA

[odd wraith]

Nice my job here is done

[cerulean thistle]

thats what i thought

And he made the first move on me so why would I care

saying I'm making exCusEs

Mf stop rushing

[cerulean thistle]

And also u been done

So get clocked

[blazing storm]

Cap lol

Post evidence.

[cerulean thistle]

Its ain't even a big deal we js got sent to help with something

No bc atp y'all are being insensitive atp bc I've been saying I wanted to wait bc I wanted to do that for my mental health and to protect my heart

Y'all js pressuring and telling me to do it immediately

is pushing my boundaries atp

Like I get it I said I wanted to talk to him

But I didn't say I wanted it immediately

I wanna take things slow

for myself and my mental health

[blazing storm]

Then you asked for advice you did not want.

[cerulean thistle]

I am I did say if I could js wait

But its like

Your telling me to do it right away

But like

Y'all gotta understand people are different

[blazing storm]

I literally told you the opposite.

In fact, people only told you what to do without specifying when.

I think you just have an anxiety problem.

[cerulean thistle]

Thats not even me having an anxiety problem

I just wanna talk to him whenever I want

and like I said

Hes my crush

The most respectful way possible

I could do what I want

And when I feel like its a good time ill do it

And I'm js in highschool

Its not even that necessary

This is for my mental health

and to protect my heart

[blazing storm]

Yeah idk. Don’t ask for advice you won’t use.

[cerulean thistle]

I never said I wasnt going to use it

[blazing storm]

Nah. You’re just ignoring everyone.

[cerulean thistle]

Its js common sense

[blazing storm]

I don’t think anyone taught you about it.

[cerulean thistle]

Let me tell you something

I'm not the type to rush anything. I never said I don't want any advice or whatever. You cant judge me or decide anything the only person that decides is God himself and I believe what is right for me. No matter what I think I'm always going to protect my heart bc theres no such thing as perfect people. If I talk to him I will start small talks. But like I said I believe what God knows whats right

[blazing storm]

Only God knows what is right for you.

You don’t get to decide what is right for you.

You need to read and reflect upon the texts, and speak to God and do labours for him.

[cerulean thistle]

Did i ever say that?

[blazing storm]

Yes.

[cerulean thistle]

Ima js say this

I wanna take it slow

for my mental health

thats all

[blazing storm]

You already said that.

The problem I have isn’t that you want to take it slow. I don’t really care since we wrapped it all up yesterday. My problem is you were being rude to @odd wraith for no reason.

[cerulean thistle]

how am i being rude tho?

[blazing storm]

By being ignorant and insulting.

Telling them to get clocked and wasting their time by refusing their advice that you asked for.

[cerulean thistle]

bc its pressuring me

and like telling me stuff like

[blazing storm]

You are pressuring yourself.

Nah, it’s not a good enough reason to behave like that. You should apologize.

Treat thy neighbour and all that.

[cerulean thistle]

I'm not apologizing and i had my reasons.

[blazing storm]

Unfortunately, you are wrong.

I will pray for you.

[cerulean thistle]

Pray for what

[blazing storm]

That God will guide you and make you a better person.

[cerulean thistle]

Rlly didn't ask

Or care

You want me to be honest with you?

[cerulean thistle]

I'm sorry for being disrespectful but the most respectful way possible the way you said this is what set me off and why I got aggravated and I genuinely don't think your advice is going to work. End of discussion.

[blazing storm]

They have a point, though.

[cerulean thistle]

Still though

[blazing storm]

Yes, they still have a point.

[cerulean thistle]

Oh nvm I'm texting him now so thanks bye 😛

[blazing storm]

Show screenshot.

[cerulean thistle]

Omg why y'all wanna know everything

[blazing storm]

You got no game.

[cerulean thistle]

Blocked.

[blazing storm]

Why are they so mad?

[cerulean thistle]

Nobody is mad ur js being annoying

[blazing storm]

We are trying to help you.

You are being rude for no reason. Especially since you asked for help.

[cerulean thistle]

Ok but ur saying that image is fake

[blazing storm]

What image?

[cerulean thistle]

I'm not going to keep arguing about this

[blazing storm]

Are you okay?

[cerulean thistle]

Get yo grown ass a job

get off discord unemployed ass

[blazing storm]

I work for the government.