#Idk how to start ending contacting with her

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spring bridge
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Its been in my mind for a while now,
We're not in a relationship we were more of a "friends with benefits" situation thing, (basically friends that do relationship stuff)

Last month it ended because she wanted to give her snap to some guys so, yeah.
She still wants to be friends and all that but I had a crush on her for 2 years and now I've lost all feelings.

I would tell her that I dont want to contact with her rn but tmr is gonna be her birthday
So im confused to like, maybe say it after her birthday or smth? Idk.

coral pendant
spring bridge
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Staying friends is killing me.

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Especially after everything

coral pendant
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Like do you miss the relationship stuff and wish she would be exclusive with you even if it’s casual not serious?

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It makes sense a guy would want that like; I think it’s natural especially if you are 25 and younger

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And maybe she was trying to see if you wanted to be more serious

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But if you don’t want to be more serious but you also don’t like her if she’s talking to other guys and it’s messing up your concentration or emotions, no contact might really be the way to go even if it’s hard

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It seems to me it would be natural for you not to want her to talk to other guys even if you don’t want a committed relationship with her. Idk have you researched human sexual mating behavior

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This all seems typical to that and we are victims to our nature

spring bridge
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I've been experiencing a lot of dark times to the point I have to take antidepressants

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And so now I js think ending contact with her would help me a lot more instead of feeling hurt by a message

coral pendant
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Ugh yeah there was just a mismatch. Love sucks and esp for guys right now, more males looking for relationships than females according to articles I read. And also from observations around me

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Sorry it’s tough out here 😭

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