#Something?

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crisp rivet
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Im not sure what to say, I feel tired most of the time and probably not in the best mental state. I have a girlfriend but I don’t want to avoid her, yet I kinda do?

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Its difficult

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I feel like I love her?

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And at the same time I don’t?

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I probably don’t care enough

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Im really confused

sharp sorrel
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Has she taken notice of how you've started to feel?

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Like have you spoken about it/brought it up at all

crisp rivet
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Nope to both

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But a friend of mine is kinda noticing

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Did I lose interest?

sharp sorrel
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Well do you feel as attracted as before

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Any tension or anything?

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Or do you feel that shift

crisp rivet
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I don’t feel anything at all

sharp sorrel
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Do you think it's from something going on that's not letting you focus on the relationship?

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Anything that's interfering

crisp rivet
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There’s nothing going on

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I just feel empty

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At this point I feel like I’m pretending to be someone else

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Talking with people, interacting

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It’s bland

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You know?

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Like eating something without taste

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Should I break up? Or just ask for some time?

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Should I just be alone for a while?

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Like

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Without talking to anyone

sharp sorrel
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Have you taken any breaks recently?

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Cause Was it just suddenly you started feeling this? Like sort of a wave that hits

crisp rivet
crisp rivet
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From what?

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I’m not doing ANYTHING

sharp sorrel
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Like not talking and just giving time for yourself

crisp rivet
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I recently went on a date

crisp rivet
sharp sorrel
crisp rivet
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Really nice on her end

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If I’m honest

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I kind of felt annoyed and grossed out

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She deserves better

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I know I sound horrible

sharp sorrel
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If that's the case I think not continuing the relationship is the right thing to do

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It's normal, some people just don't feel that spark anymore

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Or just don't really feel anything whatsoever

crisp rivet
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I’m not really sure

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The date was yesterday

crisp rivet
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Tiredness and pain

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Literally

sharp sorrel
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you're not sure what exactly caused it?

crisp rivet
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Like

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She’s my ex-bff’s friend

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And

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I started dating w her like 3 weeks after I tried something with another person

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But I felt empty too

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So

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I didn’t start anything

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And 2 months since my last ex

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Nvm

sharp sorrel
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It might just be the fact that you've been back to back in relationships/situationships , that you haven't managed to catch a break

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You most likely just need time for yourself

crisp rivet
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But if I end it I’ll be an ass

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Sorry for the word

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Should I tell her to wait?

sharp sorrel
sharp sorrel
crisp rivet
sharp sorrel
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Then you should tell her not to worry about waiting, it'll be better for both your sakes

crisp rivet
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So I should tell her that we’re breaking up?

sharp sorrel
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It would be better if you explained your part before you do

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That you don't want to cause any confusion or hurt her feelings yk

crisp rivet
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What should I say?

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That I don’t feel anything

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I can’t feel anything?

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No spark

sharp sorrel
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You should reassure her that it isn't her fault just so she doesn't feel like she did something, and just explain that you just need time to yourself and how u aren't really ready to continue w a relationship

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That you've been feeling tired and all lately

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And can't really continue trying to maintain a relationship

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It's better to find a way to make it end on terms where she understands

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Woah I have no punctuation

crisp rivet
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Don’t worry

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I understand

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Still

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It feels like I’m doing something bad

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Just because I feel like

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Yeah

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Thank you

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Really

sharp sorrel
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Ofcourse

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Anytime

sharp sorrel
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Some times things get confusing