I'm sure I left something out or just went through the situation and my thoughts weirdly, so don't hesitate to ask any clarifying questions ^
#Should I text her?
tawdry pumice
bold zealot
I mean why not? If you just want to apologise I don’t see a problem with that
just don’t expect their forgiveness
tawdry pumice
Yeah, that's true, I just worry that it will just seem like me saying I'm sorry again for something else I did or screwed up instead of like I really really mean it or something
bold zealot
honestly they might not take it as seriously as you think
well it does depend on what you did and what type of person they are
perhaps just check up on her instead of apologising right away because it has been quite some time
tawdry pumice
Yeah, that's kinda the other part I'm trying to figure out after the yes/no on should I text her is like what the first text should be. Should it be an apology, should it be a check up, should I maybe ask to go get coffee instead of doing it over text, etc.
bold zealot
Coffee sounds good to me
To me it sounds like she didn’t take it that badly cuz she still interacts with your socials so
Like a text saying “haven’t talked in while … I would like to catch up over coffee” or something like that
tawdry pumice
To me it sounds like she didn’t take it that badly cuz she still interacts with ...
I mean, yeah, but imo i think most of that stuff is just kinda general interest or like not really too much of anything (like stories just swipe through and read and then like posts just like it and move on or whatever)
But ofc that's how I see it, but I could also be 100% wrong
bold zealot
true, you never know
bold zealot
yeah just hit her up with a text
worst thing that can happen is she straight up ignores you
tawdry pumice
True, thank you. You've been really helpful 🙏
I hope you have a great day or night wherever you are
bold zealot
haha no problem it’s the least I could do