This girl that sits front left of me caught my attention when I was struggling to plug in a charger next to her and she giggled and asked me if I wanted help with that, I looked at her face(she looks so cute) I gave off a smile and said "yes thank you". She giggled once more and nothing happened after that and I didn't think much of her in that class, now I'm home and I can't stop thinking what I should tell her to start a conversation with her.
We are in a Python class with each other, not sure if she is intrested in the class or if she is there because of her friend that sits next to her.
How can I start a conversation with her?
(I asked this question on reddit and got some answers, but I wanted more opinions)
#How can I 18M approach a 18F in my class?
light yacht
summer pewter
Mmm do you know of any upcoming group projects? Do you ever see her outside of class? It would help if you had reasons to talk to her but I mean you could always just initiate something but I understand that it might be a bit difficult for people if it’s directionless or when things don’t hit off so well or click. Do you know if she has a social media? Make sure she’s not already with someone lol. If you know any mutual friends you could ask they host a hangout or meet up spot and maybe see her there. As for conversation starters hmmmm tbh I’m not too sure. I’m not good at this kind of stuff unless I’m already thinking about something. You could start with maybe asking a question like something that is relevant to what is going on. Something initially to break the ice and then move on from there and maybe ask what she’s doing in this class or if she has any interest in it. It helps to start with some mutual interests and then asking questions getting to know more but yeah. If you’re still unsure you could try looking at some starters online. And obviously if she isn’t seeing anyone and you still want to keep in contact you can naturally find some way to still do so like social media or a game id if she plays video games. Idk just trying to throw stuff out there
light yacht
Mmm do you know of any upcoming group projects? Do you ever see her outside of c...
I got help from general-help after making this post and came to the conclusion to start a conversation by thanking her for what she did for me again, and then introducing myself
also in reddit someone told me to say hi when I see her in class, which.. is kinda crazy that I did not think about it
and its also not a school it's just a 3 hour class that I go to twice a week, sorry for the misunderstanding
summer pewter
No worries. Yeah that sounds great. Honestly sometimes the most simple and straightforward thing is the best thing we can do especially if you’re an over thinker lol. But wishing you luck