#Everlong
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i never did
ill try to start at the beginning
i wonder where that is
my ex maybe
her last straw was when i vented about her to a mutual friend
april 2024
i never understood what i did wrong
she never told me
just said i was pathetic
maybe i am
maybe thats why i begged to know what i did wrong
i cant fight something i dont know
i was doing ok after that
not the best
but surely better than this year
i knew i shouldnt have confessed when September came around
i think i romanticized her
like how tom did to summer
it was a situationship too
i thought i learnt my lesson
i repeated it anyway
i cant tell why this time is different
well i can to some extent
ive been thinking things this year i havent thought of last year
i wasnt as suicidal
surprisingly
i saw life as an opportunity
now its a burnout
even having fun
is just a memory
even when im living it
i know it wont be real soon enough
self harm wasnt as bad last year either
its not bad this year but worse than last year
it was so good at first
well
to me it always was good
the relationship
it slowly burned me though
it felt like i was always on an edge
thats probably why i was mean
no matter what words i say
nothing will work
communication is not key i guess
i dont think i can even form correct thoughts rn
i dont understand them
i know you know i read what you said earlier
it hurt
alot
ive almost thrown myself out of my own life just to understand you even a little
i cant understand you
because a part of you doesnt want me to
and all of you doesnt want to open up to me at all
its been like that even when we were together
but when you tell me anything about your issues
any label you say
i always research it
research how to help
not much works though
i kept trying
all the time
to understand even a little
i tried to
i really did
im sorry you couldnt see it
all i ever wanted was to make you feel loved and comfortable
but everytime i tried nothing worked
and when i got hurt
i didnt know how to deal with mysekf
it was either I completely dismiss how i felt
or tell you and be dismissed by you eitherway
or vent to someone and nothing changed
i dont know why you went through my chats to the point you hurt yourself
but it was also my fault
i never knew how to deal with my emotions
and i never knew what hurt you and what didnt
until it was too late
and whatrver i try now wont work
i remembered the note my mom gave me today
i wish i didnt
i cant breathe just thinking about it
i hurt everyone around me
i have no friends
i have no one
the only one i can think of is reina
shes never been hurt by me
shes shown that she cares
was upset i didnt wakr her up when i was crying at night
but shes far away now
has her own issues
she did say i can call her whenever i want to
but
idk
i wish
that one day
everyone will be at peace without me
i realize that
maybe
i am the problem
everywhere
and im not saying this to beat myself up
im saying it because ive seen it
the same situation with my ex repeated
the same situation with my parents keeps repeating
i hurt my cousin on accident
my friends
the constant repetition is a reminder that i cant change
because i dont know what to change
thats why i begged you to tell me what i did
i cant know who you are
because there is no you that you agree on
maybe i loved someone that didn’t exist
but its unlikely
because i saw you beyond your issues
i dont think your issues define who you are as a person
maybe to you they do
but we’re over now
so
i was gonna take the offer off
maybe i shouldve
if you knew what it was
i know what i need to do
but ive always been scared of it
i want to get better
i can
im not mad
upset
a little frustrated though
its not that i need you
its not that i romanticized you
i know i did to an extent
i was ready to accept who you truly were
i was never shown who that was
i loved who was shown to me
and was ready to accept her even if that wasnt who she really was
maybe it was misunderstood along the way
thats ok
i know that you didnt see or feel any of the efforts i put in
and maybe thats why i was never enough
in the end
youll never see this
or id hope you wont
because you were all i ever wanted and you were the only person i would’ve accepted regardless
maybe thats a little selfless
maybe i was just in love
but now
i know that im at fault
and thats all i need to know
maybe one day you'll realize just how much i was willing to go through for you
i miss you
sometimes i feel like you never loved me
i wish i was something to you
im a fucking loser
did you even want me?
Somtimes i dont understand things
twin why u here
Idk