Dont want anything to do with my mother

[chilly yoke]

heres what she said in her email to me

I know things have been hard lately, and I know you’ve got a lot going on in your heart and mind. I won’t pretend to know exactly what you're feeling, but I do want you to know this:
I love you.
That hasn’t changed, and it won’t. Not with time, not with distance. I miss you, and I’ve thought about you every day since you left. Not because I’m upset or disappointed—but because I care deeply about you, and I hope you’re okay.
You don’t have to respond if you’re not ready. Just know that I'm here.
You’re still part of this family. That doesn’t stop because of one hard moment. I see you. I love you. And I’ll be here when you’re ready.

Heres what i said back

hmm thats hilarious "were still family" well family doesnt fuck the other members of it over you remeber when you stole like 30 grand from chic chic and bankrupted her since you stole her charge card. family isnt blood, family is one who cares for another unconditionally and takes care of them when they dont even have to, just remember you took dads family from him for a year, i guess the 47 thousand you owe dad now is a bit of karma for that, and the fact that alex stole half my tools and lied about it doesn't take much to put two and two together when half my tools aren't in my toolbox and theres husky tools laying around your house, they dont sell individual tools much, but i guess your going to be buying me more soon, reason one dad deserves the title dad is because he raised us for 19+ years when he could've been like a million usd better off, but i guess thats hard when you work your ass off for everyone and get fucked over by them, dad never had to raise us, or alex dad might not be blood to her but hes spent like well over 2 thousand dollars so she always had art or colorguard to do, hell dad gave gabe his

truck, the one he paid like 6 grand for, not to mention that between dad and chic chic gabe has gone to like 5k work of band and whatnot, im sure if something happened to millie or raegan we would be in the truck on the way to beat someones ass, you wouldnt ever do that, you never will, thats why he deserves the title dad, you dont deserve the title mom at all, hell you didnt bother to answer when your own son trys to talk to you, and its your fault alex is deppressed because its blatent to me that she is. so yea keep shit talking when you have nothing to back it up, oh and not to mention we have cars and shit to drive and sometime this month i guess im getting my learners permit dk yet, if you were a better person you wouldnt manipulate and lie to get back at people you dont like, so yea fuck you i dont do fake friends, pretty sure theres a thing as fake family and i dont do tht shit either, but thanks for paying to buy me new tools and shit helps alot when half mine are stolen by your fake ass lying husband, and if you actually grew as a person youd actually pay grandma back, and if you guy got fucking jobs you wouldnt have to fuck people over and you could have nice shit, kinda like how dad works his ass off every day every week to make his paycheeck instead of asking for a handout every time and making an excuse when someone wants to talk, be a better person and maybe others will be good to you oh not to mention that he busted his ass and almost even killed himself from working so hard to make sure we have food on the table lights water and ac internet and everything else every month, just remeber he worked himself dam near to death to make sure we had it all, when have you done so? i'm not a part of your 5 person

family im a part of this 9 person family who cares for each other, but hey, im not the one whos getting 47 thousand dollars worth of karma and fuck you now am i, and i never will because i dont fuck people over, oh and also when you said youd make sure to take my kids away if i ever had any, no your bitch ass wont, and just wait and one day you can try, because if i feel like this about kids i dont have to wonder how dad felt when you took the ones he has. so yea only thing thats family to me is gabe dad chic chic becky joel and alex took a year to realize that, and this negates you not apologizing, and yea, it does break my heart that i feel the need to say this.but at the end of the day its the truth that you have earned. also, the job market seems pretty good, alex could get his license and go work at the hall, gabes working at the hall making decent money just to be a helper, how much an hour is alex making, 0 absolutely 0 and it will always be that way, you two are the biggest jokes, truely.

yea i was pissed "all names are fake names to remain confidential"

i also told her to never talk to me again

[chilly yoke]

I think you need to distance yourself form your mother, she sounds like a horrible human being, let alone mother. If she's still in your life then do what you can to force her out of it, get evidence of her being a bad mother, send it to the police, prevent her from getting visitation let alone custody, your mother is horrible, don't let who she is impact who you are.

If she isn't in your life anymore, then do what you can to make sure she stays out of It, becoming financially stable, via working or other means, as well as being emotionally stable will also help. Some people are horrible and there's nothing you can really do about it, but you can atleast keep them as far away as possible, being stable and not relying on anyone can help with that, having evidence of her horribleness will also benefit that. Prevent her from having any control or stake from anything you do, if your getting your learners permit then I'm assuming your 15-16, so getting a part time job, or trying to make money in any shape way or form is always good. You could also call Cps on her, although that might be harder on your dad if he has to take care of you 24/7, do what you can to make sure you don't need her, so you never have to see her again.

Its completely valid to not want to have anything to do with your mother, so don't.